My housekeeper is here now. She comes once a week, and honestly, I prefer every other week, but i know she needs the money. I do pay her a little extra on every check and I haven given her and her family LOTS of clothes, and a few home decorations that I don't use any longer.
Today I have a cold and feel like crap and would much prefer to be in my bed, but won't because I feel guilty.
I do sometimes run errands while she is here, but not at least for an hour and half after she arrives.
Because my husband is very anal about how clean a house should be, he usually finds something to nitpik about; usually his shower; and I agree in part because she NEVER puts my sheets on correctly. they are usually put on upside down. I've mentioned it to her but I really don't think she gets it, so I just switch it once she leaves. We can't communicate well because she is hispanic and knows very little english.
thanks for your comments.