i appreciate all your replies! you guys are really great. i ended up getting the cherrytart. now, i'm having a bit of buyer's remorse. i absolutely love the color, but i feel like i won't be getting much use out of it since the red is SO bright. besides, i've recently starting persuing the light grey venetia that cameron diaz has recently been pictured with. my mj sa, gabby, is looking into the mj warehouse inventory on my behalf, so if she ends up finding one, i think i would prefer that bag over the ines.
i guess i will have to see it in person. if it ends up looking too garish for my tastes, then i'll just send it back within the three day return period, so no loss.
thanks to everyone again for your help! my friends don't get my obsession and my boyfriend has horrible taste in bags, so it's nice to have you ladies around for input.