I understand that exact thing has happened to me many times. lol I actually do understand what you are saying about having two of the them I did as well and found I only used the noir one so I have consigned the other one. I did submit it to FP but the offer they gave me was offensive given the type of leather so I passed. Do you know someone that might want to take it off your hands that you trust that could be an option. Unfortunately, at this time it is very risky to sell on your own with all the scams. Have you tried Anna Fabulous Finds, Yoogi's Closet or
The Real Real? Some pay out straight and some are consignments. Given that it is black it should sell quickly.