I hear you! I'm pretty good about cleaning things out that I don't use anymore, but we moved from a small house to a big one, and with so much closet space, it's really easy to get carried away and keep ALLTHETHINGS. This is not the best approach to keeping a workable wardrobe, and my issue now is inadvertently buying things that potentially steal wears from others. I've been tracking wears on everything in my closet, which really helps.Good to know I'm not the only one! That's just what I used to do I couldn't resist a bargain if it was something i liked and I thought I'd wear for an occasion or as you say different season. I think it's a great idea but for me it just got out of hand, when my son moved out I expanded my wardrobe space and accumulated too much. My weight/size can also fluctuate a size according to how committed I am to healthy eating and things often didn't fit me later
I needed to change when we decided to downsize our home. It's too big and expensive to run, blah.....blah ..........an ongoing work in progress I've sold, consigned, donated and moved on all clothes with tags, anything that doesn't fit at the moment or I don't wear. I also decided I wouldn't buy anything that I wasn't going to wear that week and only if there was a really good reason why I couldn't wear something I already had
Last year was a huge success for me with shopping my own wardrobe and clearing wardrobe space. Then I KonMari'd everything that was left, even DH loved the concept and did his sock drawer
Now I must commit myself to the rest of my stuff
2020 for me will be about doing the same with shoes, scarves and bags
FWIW, I think your shopping process is one a lot of people share. I really appreciate your openness on it.Thank you @Annabel Lee I think writing that post clicked things into place for me.....the process of writing it, really helped me understand why i am always buying....and part of that constant buying mode is the mindset of, oohhh, its on sale! Or a good price! And its pretty! so i buy it....instead of waiting and getting something better, that i would want more....and then there is too much stuff and the merry go round of buy/sell/buy....so, now to stop that cycle!
thank you for your kind words....i felt iffy afterward about revealing too much on that post....
Oh you are all so very naughty. Do you think you can hide your "sins" in the last few pages of the old thread and have a clean slate for 2020
Haha, I'm giggling aloud at this--that is exactly what I'm doing! I did in fact just buy another bag, and I went back and forth on whether to return it. I got a great deal on it, and I can use it, so I eventually decided to keep it, but I'm going to send another one to justify that. It's a Danse Lente bucket bag, and while it has a few points against it, I've been drawn to edgier styles lately, and this was an easy way to test the waters on how well I can integrate that with my wardrobe:
With that, I can comfortably conclude my year-end stats. I had 12 bags and one SLG in, plus eight bags and one SLG out in 2019. In that count are two bags that came in and went right back out, so it's a net of 10 bags/one SLG in and six bags/one SLG out.
That feels like a lot of movement, but I'm really happy with everything I got this year. I do have some regrets on an out, but it was a bag I wanted to upgrade anyway, and I'm only annoyed because it's a style/color I need, and I'd just hoped to find its replacement sooner.