Well I'm maxing out the 401k (15k a year) paying off the student loans and I have some emergency money saved up on top. I also have a budget of 10% of my income for clothes & bags. I just try and keep it around that each month, sometimes I'm a little over but because my savings are automatic its fine.
You have to remember some of the ladies here are in a different place in their lives financially, so don't kill yourself or be late for a handbag. I've passed on lots of things I wanted and you know, years later, I remember like 3 of them.