Hi, I would love to get an input on this please . I had my wedding almost 3 years ago, it was lovely, I promise I was not even remotely a bridezilla ( a good friend had her wedding on the same day on another city, so our friends were scrambling on what to do, I made them go to the other wedding, since it was a private wedding, their absence would be very noticeable and well err not attending my wedding would not exactly be a friendship breaker). I was blessed enough to purchase (or was gifted) instead of renting my dress and all things accompanying it.
Well, eversince the wedding, I have several people wanting to borrow my wedding things. My sister's bff borrowed my haircomb to use for her wedding. A cousin tried on my spare shoes, but it didn't fit, so she ended up not borrowing them. Now another cousin had " borrowed" my 2 wedding shoes and 1 white shoes ( I bought them when I was my friend's bridesmaid). Asking if she can also use my veil and her mom asked if they might borrow my dress. Well the non dress stuff I can live with other people using them, but I draw the line at the dress. I mean, I consider it an heirloom. My sister I'd lend her the dress in a heartbeat, my daughter, of course, but other than that, I can't bear it.
I wonder what do you girls think of this?
Well, eversince the wedding, I have several people wanting to borrow my wedding things. My sister's bff borrowed my haircomb to use for her wedding. A cousin tried on my spare shoes, but it didn't fit, so she ended up not borrowing them. Now another cousin had " borrowed" my 2 wedding shoes and 1 white shoes ( I bought them when I was my friend's bridesmaid). Asking if she can also use my veil and her mom asked if they might borrow my dress. Well the non dress stuff I can live with other people using them, but I draw the line at the dress. I mean, I consider it an heirloom. My sister I'd lend her the dress in a heartbeat, my daughter, of course, but other than that, I can't bear it.
I wonder what do you girls think of this?