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I get so torn about this issue because half of me gets a rush finding a hot bag at a great price, and the other half of me is repulsed by the ubiquity of these high end (and mostly garish) bags. I remember when people bought Coach because of their quality and their warranty, and they would send Coach bags back to the factory in Connecticut when a strap needed to be repaired. I love nice stuff as much as the next person, and I tend to like things that don't scream "LOOK AT ME! I'm a designer bag" and really cant stand logos (the coach c is just silly!!! And DB just looks trashy..and although I loooove Chanel in general, the logo shouldn't become the bag as in the 5" or larger logo bags but should rather be subtle...) Yes, I'm a new england yankee....who appreciates styleI think things become problematic when it turns into an obsession with stuff, and showing it off...it's really pretty twisted. The fact that girls in highschool and college carry Miu Miu or Chanel or even Coach makes me cringe!If you're the type of person who chooses friends and judges people by the stuff they have, then I understand that you probably need to carry your designer bag on campus. There are so many people who have really, really important jobs and may not make a lot, and can't afford to carry a designer bag. Or, they save up for one because of the quality. But the reality is, that most of the folks I know that are wealthy (ie, not folks who just make great salaries, but have wealth) generally carry understated items. They may have a few, and they're often trendy, but generally, they don't need to constantly buy new bags, and they never buy bags that scream for attention...and the bags they do seem to favor the most are the ones that show signs of wear - as they should. They're just things used to serve a purpose.
That is a great point..I am just trying to say that not everyone has the same motives from carrying/wearing what they do, and it is not right to judge everyone under the same banner, regardless of their social or economic standing.
just my two cents.
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I agree with you - I was just saying I dont like logos or bags that attract attention, not that everyone who wears one does so for that reason. I am sure there are many ppl who love them for their look, my husband wanted to buy me one of these coach bags when they first came out with like patchwork prints - c's in all different colors, and other stuff....but I told him it was too busy for me. Anyway, I get wearing a bag that you love because you love it...My point was just that there are so many things to be concerned about, esp in college, that carrying a highend bag shouldn't be the major concern. It's just kinda wack, and I'm as guilty as anyone else, how people get caught up with this stuff.....There is nothing wrong with carrying things that are labeled sometimes, granted many carry understated items, I often do, but even the understated are often more expensive. There are some girls, that carry/wear designer stuff to judge others, and to not chose friends in accordance to clothing ect... but please don't apply that judgement to everyone. I prefer not to hang out with women like that, mostly because they are dumb in many ways in how they treat others ect... just because someone has money does not mean that you should jusge them, and the other way around.
Perhaps it would be wise to thin about how they got it... meaning that some people don't carry those things to 'show off' point in reference, my mother died when I was 19, and m brother and I inherited her business, and sold it. If it were ot for that, and my father we would probably have been in the same boat as everyone else. Many of the designer bags I carried had been gifts from my mother, and I carried them all the time, to remind me of her, and bought some more with money she had left me, because designer bags were something she would have never have bought for herself, she thought of them as a waste, but she always bought them ffor me, about 1 a year, as a christmas or birthday gift.... i also knew a lot of girls from grief group that had enharited a bag, or a bag collection from their mothers....
anyways, without telling my lifestory, I am just trying to say that not everyone has the same motives from carrying/wearing what they do, and it is not right to judge everyone under the same banner, regardless of their social or economic standing.
just my two cents.
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