My not sharing policy has cost me dearly.....ended up buying daughters two chanels since I could not bear letting them go on a trip with my kids.......also, I did lend a good, good friend once one of my least liked chanels from some seasons past to go to Aspen. She spends like a maniac but does not buy classic good handbags.,and asked to borrow it. Anyhoo, I was miserable from the time the bag left my house, even though I had not used it in months and months., two weeks after her return I had not heard from her and I was panicking....mind you, I did not even love that bag.....I finally called her and left her a rather cold message regarding needing my bag back for an ocassion, etc., etc. Found out, she never took it....I picked it up, and literally smiled all the way home.....it is still in its dustbag and has come out a few more times since our separation........no, I will not lend my chanels....it is to traumatic.....and I almost lost a longtime friendship over it..H