You'll get compliments here, though. Saw your collection from link the other day and was in awe. I can tell you buy what you love, something I wish I'd known at your age and they're all pieces that build well on each other and are refined without being dull, something I've yet to figure out.
On that note, my bags tend to fall in the safe category, so typically only SAs will comment on them. Both Reed Krakoff Boxers were fawned over at Nordstrom and my Tod's Jewelry D-cube has been complimented a half dozen times or so, but I tend to fly under the radar.
Ditto; I've had unpleasant instances where people judge me for my belongings, once they find out what they were, so I tend to buy what's not recognizable. Really dislike it, when those around me scrutinize everything I own, and tell others about the brand/how expensive they are. Some individuals just seriously have too much time!