I totally agree that it is the relationship with one’s SA that is essential to the experience of shopping at H and whether it feels fun and luxurious. I was lucky enough to find a lovely SA with whom I get along well; though, of course, it took some time to develop our relationship. She has a good sense of my style and has no problem telling me that something doesn’t work for me. She has, more than once, discouraged me from buying something.Unpopular opinion: I would not shop at H (or any other luxury store) if I did not trust and align with my SAs taste and sensibilities, and shopping doesn’t come with a rush or deadline. I’ve been fortunate to be offered some very nice bags, including QBs, and no one has had to bribe me to shop. ( Sometimes I’m not sure if customers are enabling SA poor behavior or the other way around). @1CC, maybe your friend is buying that stuff as gifts if she isn’t into home goods for herself? I read somewhere that a long-standing chanel RTW client buys H cups to give as gifts to others, including her chanel SAs.It took months for my teacups and teapot to come into the Boutique and my Saint Louis oxymore crystal has not yet arrived after many many months, so I almost envy that it’s so easy for some to pick up home goods lol
ETA: My SAs in NY and FSH have point blank told me not to buy X bc it really does not flatter. They also know that I will eventually find something else that does. I wish others had this experience too.
UNPOPULAR OPINION: perhaps it is not H per se that is the problem but the expectations we as consumers bring to the relationship. When we seem willing to buy anything and everything in our pursuit of a ‘quota’ bag, H is more than willing to help us spend our money. If we are more discerning, thoughtful and authentic about what we like and don’t like, our SAs are more likely to respect us and be honest and authentic with us.