How do you decide on what you’re buying next? Availability/gaps on your collection/whims? We all have our lists but how do you decide on what to cross next on that list?
Very good question! I was quite spontaneous + fast when I started. I like rings the most and the price point ~5 years ago wasn't too bad, so I accumulated my ring collection.
Then I went onto bracelets. (was quite uncertain about this in the beginning, wasn't sure if I would feel comfortable with things on my wrist, never really wore a bracelet before; so it took a lot of thinking)
I'm not much of a necklace person (I have one and I wear it everyday) and I have a tendency to lose earrings so those are both a no for me lol.
I have a couple of watches, and I've realized that while I love looking at watches, I tend to just stick with one and it just stays. It's similar with fine jewelry for me, I tend to wear the same pieces over and over again, so it takes a while before wanting a new piece atm.
Nowadays, I'm more into RTW than fine jewelry and bags. I do have things on my wishlist but I don't really have the urge to buy. (which probably tells me I don't want it badly enough yet or it's not within my current budget.)
My most recent piece was instinctive. I tried it on once, went back to the store the next day, and bought it, the Buccelatti, even though it's technically not fine jewelry lol.
Despite having the tendency to leave things (clothes, bags, shoes, etc.) on my wishlist for a long time, I feel that with jewelry I am the most spontaneous and instinctive. Not as fast or as many purchases as before, but I definitely listen to my heart when it comes to putting my money down.
I am quite glad that even though I bought a lot more earlier on, I am still very happy and love wearing my pieces to this day. Hopefully that means my instincts are on point in terms of longevity lol.