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Hmm, now this is very thought out! I'm impressed because I don't do this. I buy the same style or type bag all the time since I am most comfortable with hobo but I do wonder if given the opportunity, if I could venture into a more structured type bag?I chose "planned".
I browse a lot for the 'perfect bag' (if it exists), and will usually take many many months to settle upon one or two bags (amongst the thousands). All of my purchases fill a certain criteria though:
1. It will constantly be in the back of my mind whilst browsing the market.
2. It must describe the 'essence-of-me'.
3. It cannot be of a too similar shape, size, or utility as any of my existing bags.
4. My need for it must exist as a need for its utility and it must fill a hole in my wardrobe.
I find that I never feel guilt on my purchases, regardless of whether it be $500, or $5000+
I spend a lot of time deciding what kind of bag I want. I only buy leather, for a number of reasons. I start with designers/brands I already like, and look at the bags they have, and try to find one that fits. If they don't have anything, I come on here to see if the knowledgeable ladies on tPF know something I don't (very likely).Make a choice and then post a deeper explanation, please.
I started thinking about this when a member posted that she felt worthless unless she carried an expensive bag, and that made me start thinking about how we get started on this kind of mindset (that what we own is who we are.)
And that made me start thinking about how we end up buying what we buy...
So there ya go! Have fun, and look deep - be thoughtful - let us get to the root of our buying habits and perhaps help somebody realize that who they are inside is not best represented by the bag they carry. Maybe.