HmMmMm...oh how i'd LOVE to be in your shoes! lols but anyhoo, back to topic...
Suggestions: neo cabby, BH, saleya. and if you're willing to spend a little more: griet, trevi
might be helpful: I once saw a beautiful preggy mommy shopping at LV with her trevi gm and it looked absolutely stunning on her! I asked her how she liked the bag because i was contemplating about getting the pm version and she said, and i quote, "I love it! it's such a great bag, it really holds all of my kids' necessities and i don't really have to worry about it because there's no vachette to worry about." She was looking for another "mommie" bag only in mono, so she was trying on the Griet, and she asked me for my opinion. and I think it would be a great bag because it's not your average diaper bag, so you can use it as an everyday bag if you wanted. Plus, there's a zipper compartment where you can throw in things that you wouldn't want spilling out in case your bag ever gets turned over and there are other compartments where it's just open and you can grab what you need in a jiffy. She was in total agreement, but I'm not sure if that's what she ended up with because the SA helping me out was calling for me :shame:.