Oh my!!!Both you and mshel should gently and respectfully educate your elders that although it is difficult, they must cease using such an offensive word, because the modern and correct term is "people of flava."
Caxe....above you said 'carried over from her times'...that's exactly what my parents told us when we gently corrected them. THey were absolutely stunned that it was disrespectful. I think they're so sheltered from reality society. My husband and I physically react though...drives us crazy! But...they're aware now..