That makes sense. I believe many see the bow rings as cute. How you describe your style I see the flower rings suiting you best. Have you tried Cosmo full pave line? That might give you impact you are looking for.Each time I look at a bow ring in a photo (e.g. Noeud, Tilda's Bow, Picchiotti), I love them and think wow, so pretty.
I then try on the rings in real life, and I do love the cute bow design is. Ironically, cute for me, is also what I don't love. I see the bow ring being cute not so much for the size of the bow, nor how the bow is shaped, nor how many diaomonds. I see the bow design itself, when made into jewelry, as being a cute design idea. That's just me, and cute is not my look at this phase in my life.
I thought the Picchiotti bow looked more elegant when I saw it online. Well, anything looks elegant in a dressy outfit as in the model in the photo. Sure, that ring would look great going out, but I don't buy pieces to be worn only when going out. I buy pieces to wear everyday. After work hours, I dress very casual, and I like to wear serious bling to add a bit of chic elegance. For work, I'm in a conservative corporate environment, male-dominated, and I wear suits. Hence I also like to wear serious bling. So cute is definitely not my look in either scenario.
At the boutique today, I stood in front of a full length mirror to assess how I looked with the bow ring...
I saw a lady with a striped tee and skinny Bermuda shorts,wearing a cute bow ring. Ugh... too cute.
Then I envisioned myself wearing one of my suits, heels, and the bow ring. Ugh again... definitely not a serious look.
I showed my husband these photos when I got home (he did not come with me). He said, without any prompting, "the bows are nice and cute, but I like those flower rings more that you bought from that French company, you should get more flower rings."
Don't get me wrong, I love bow rings. But they are just not my look at the moment. That's just me of course.
So... bows are moving to the back of my list for now. I think I'll save the gorgeous bow ring for when I retire!
I can look cute all day, anytime I want!
Hope that helps explain my thinking for me. A bit disappointed today I will say. It’s a gorgeous piece.
I don’t know about the other styles, but I adore the noeud ring. I find it elegant and feminine. The ring evokes the feeling of being at the ballet. It is my husband’s favourite of the styles and thinks it suits my style best. I wear a lot of flowery dresses and rompers. He finds the lotus more edgy or sophisticated, which suits my ‘going out’ style well. I am coming around to believe I could wear noeud to work whereas the lotus is just too much bling and reserved for weekends or nights out.