Where I live you dont see men with bags much, unless a back pack or laptop type bag. I think the second tote pictured on this thread is awesome though and would suit a man.
I have no problems with men carrying masculine totes - or even LV DE range - but I am not keen on men carrying what looks like ladies bags - such as LV Multi-Colour speedies !!!! That just looks all kind of wrong looking to me.
But to each their own, and I guess in reality it does not impact on my life what others do - but I would not let my man carry a feminine looking bag - it just would not go down well in my part of Australia.