Side note , One thing I truly appreciate about the Coach forum is that there such an open, inviting atmosphere where we can share about what we like and experience and simply pass over opinions or experiences that we don’t identify with or agree with. Thanks all

I am about 2 1/2 years into my vintage Coach (and now it appears lol non-vintage too!) indulgence/hobby! And I am so happy I have a ready community of people who get my passion. And fuel it by posting fabulous bags. You know who you are lol lol. So I am up from about 5 vintage bags I had prior to this recent turn of events to about 30!
I totally get the search for the perfect bag, the driving around thrift shops (ie driving to a Savers after a long day at work with a long ride back home to have it be a complete bust!) the hours spent scouting websites (I had to ban myself from late night bidding in bed looking at pics in a 7 inch tablet, although I did end up with a Marketing Tote that way for $ 35) and I even *****ed about shipping over on another thread , where two members kindly but firmly helped me understand I was whining. And the endless variety of vintage styles!! Where does it stop??
Sooo, here is a little ( okay, a lot) of my experience to help me find the perfect bag and where do I want to stop, and I completely understand if anyone wants to stop reading and move on.
It stops where ever I want it stop. What has helped me most is understanding what are my Purse Goals for say, the next few months. And then revisit those goals every few months. There is a thread pinned to the Bags, bags, bags Forum called Shopping Your Closet 2019. From reading posts on that thread, I was able to recognize that there is an overlap of Collecting, Hobby and Bags/totes That I Use. Here are a few ideas that I have gleaned from others and formulated myself.
I don’t have to own a bag to enjoy it.
I let go of finding the perfect bag. I concentrate on what I need it to do and carry. I look at the bags I have, and see what elements , sizes work for me and purchase accordingly. My idea of a Working Breed. Yes I have a group of bags that don’t work at all based on trial and error. I buy cheap for the most part so it is easy to part with them in this case.
And I have developed a lot of patience, so I can take advantage of deals when I see them.
I carry a tape measure and notes and my tablet if possible when thrifting so I don’t get carried away while thrifting with I bag I won’t use and is on my collect list.
I gave myself permission to collect vintage small bags. Meaning these bags are purely for fun, used once in a while, my idea of a Trophy Bag. I have a $ limit and have a specific idea of what I’d like ie, anything with a kiss lock.
Of lately, looking at several bags in rehab stages is stopping me from buying more to rehab !!!
It took me about 2 years to get to the above list. Rehabbing has become a hobby I enjoy! When it isn’t fun, I take a step back. Until I get over the momentary frustration I may be feeling. It supplies my little Collection and my Working Bags!
Lastly, there will always be another bag . . . until then, I will enjoy one (or more !) I already have today.

Okay, stream of consciousness over!