That's totally okay about the questions. Most of the stuff I use was ideas I got from asking here anyway. I use very small needle nose pliers for putting the prongs on the back of the turnlock bits back on. I use a tiny flathead screwdriver to get them off. Sometimes it can still be difficult if they're on really tight and the screwdriver has been known to slip and gouge the leather. In only one case was it bad enough I really regret it. There is no other tool I could find that worked better though as scary as it is.
As for the dremel it took me a while to figure that all out too. I used to use a polishing compound from dremel and these for a while, and I was finding it pretty frustrating and it was taking a long time:
https://www.amazon.com/Polishing-Ma...989847&sr=8-12&keywords=dremel+polishing+bits
So now I make those the second step, while my first step for really ragged looking hardware is these which seriously work fast: ETA these obliterate verdigris instantly! Also you can use steel wool for a similar result but these are faster
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00H7Q9OMU/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
It makes for some very very shiny hardware.
Fantastic, thank you! I have had the Dremel since Christmas and still hadn't gotten around to picking anything up for it. Those are so affordable too... Now I don't have an excuse

Also, if anyone is interested, I just recently bought a metal jewelry polishing cloth, and it's excellent for bead chains and zippers. After getting brass cleaner stuck between beads and zipper teeth too many times, this cloth is awesome!
Thanks again for the tips. Now I'm off to Amazon to spend some [more] money. ha!