I would post a photo with the security tag on the garment
I'm honestly not sure if you are trying to mess with me or what the problem is.
Let me repeat
Vestiaire closes the case when the return was delivered, since they don't care and then release the money to the buyer, what difference does it make?
It would make sense if you could talk to them, but their "customer service" doesn't really want to be bothered with anything. I mentioned earlier, one of my neighbours in Surrey ordered a dress, what she got was a different size, a different brand and a different colour, they refused a return and said she can list it for free, they used the listing of the seller (the item she had bought but not delivered) their customer service is totally hit and miss, and I highly doubt they would be bothered about a security tag.
If I would be a shop, yes I would totally consider putting security tags on items, but I got rid of a lot of items, private reasons, my partner passed away from Covid complications, I wanted a clear out as we had a very active social life due to his job (he worked in the city as a banker) and my life has changed, I didn't want to be reminded, so I just got rid of a few items from "the old life" it wasn't even about the money as I listed the items ridiculously low and donated the money usually to a foodbank or a shelter. For me it was more about finding a way of saying goodbye to the past. It sounds stupid, but sorting through things and letting go helped me to accept how things changed, for a while I was totally lost, possibly TMI but my twin was killed in a car accident, drunk driver, then while I was just getting over it, Covid happened, we both got it at the tail end, I recovered relatively well, my other half said his chest feels really tight, he had trouble breathing and I called an ambulance, when the ambulance arrived he had already passed away, apparently sudden cardiac death, to make things even weirder, I have an inherited heart problem, by all means it should have been me. I just wanted to have a symbolic clear out, I know I sound like a total loony tune now, but I really drew comfort from the idea that somebody gets and item they couldn't otherwise afford and will cherish it.
The dress, I was honestly more puzzled than anything else, a dress for over 2K, worn twice, I think I sold it for 100, who would bother to wear and return it and fake a stain for such a ridiculously low price? It wasn't damaged, I am just a bit OCD about germs, so it was a bit gross to get it back smelling of BO and some really not very nice perfume, it wasn't anything dry cleaning couldn't fix. i wondered a bit if the buyer was simply hard up and couldn't even afford the 100, but then they wouldn't be able to attend an event where such a dress is appropriate. In the meantime I have given it away (dry cleaned of course) to the daughter of my friends' cleaner who aspires to study fashion design. The look of joy on her face was priceless.
In case Vestiaire would have good customer support, yes, security tags would make sense, they are just not for me, I bought a lot from them in the past, I said earlier it was a bit hit and miss, mostly miss when it went through their authentication (in the UK ordering from the US, Asia, Australia or Italy it always goes through the verfication, that is how I figured they do not seem to have a clue) the last incident with somebody returning a bag (again, customer service totally useless) the sign of wear I had already shown was the reason why her return was approved, she kept the dust bag, threw the bag into a paper bag and returned, as a result of the shoddy packaging the bag was bent out of shape and totally and utterly scuffed, they were not interested I had to insist that at least the dust bag was returned, I have to admit I did that out of spite, because under no circumstances was she keeping my dust bag on top of it all. It is simply the Vestiaire customer service is really not great, I had some great buys, I had some nice sales with people then contacting and thanking me (I usually packed carefully, put in a little card thanking them and wishing them the best), but with that person turning stalker, I feel a bit uneasy about using the site, and I spent a few months with friends (they suggested a change of scenery would do me good, they were right), so I had changed my address to their office address and just packed the box with items into my car.
I possibly bored you to death with my life, stuff happens to a lot of people, I was just not good dealing with it, seriously, I feel embarrassed, but I just went numb, I could function at work, but as soon as I was home (the home in Surrey) I was just staring at old pictures, I lost so much weight because I didn't feel hungry, it was just as if everything had shut down. Only when I forced myself to sort out, I became alive again, I started to imagine that somebody would be happy, and even at the danger of sounding even more disturbed, it was like I was honouring my partner by not having the garments in my dressing room where they would never be worn again (yes, it sounds crazy, but we used to pick items together, so really bittersweet) but that they would be worn and cherished. Don't judge me too harshly, it was a coping mechanism. Oddly enough the stalker trying to bully me, that really woke me up, I will fight back. Our family solicitor was very good but recommended a colleague who specializes in those cases, so I look forward to the meeting. It totally snapped me out