Thank you for your sympathy. I do not know why. I reported it on BBB but I doubt it would do something. Sometimes it does speed up their response (when they reply, they will sound like they did not actually review the case and then everything will be started over again). If anything happened, I heard that people had successful cases by filing a police report, reaching out to their leadership (management, CEO) on LinkedIn or email, or reaching out to the press. Because I had several awful experiences with them, I might do those.
CondeNast is one of their major share holders, which would explain why they hype Vestiaire in their publications. Your best cause of action might be to post on every review platform there is, as detailed as possible, mention that their FAQ is different to what it says next to the item, do a charge back through the credit card company, look up the company information (I don't know in which country you are) and send a registered letter there to the top brass, keep the documentation and then contact the media, also if you use hashtags on social media, they might take notice.
With the reviews they only give generic answers, it is ridiculous, you can literally see they don't read and only use auto-reply, I think they make so much money, they do not care, but if there are too many people being disappointed and complain, something will hopefully change.
I am a massive fan of the environmental aspect, but with Vestiaire it seems window dressing. I am truly baggled how a company that invests so much into advertising has such little interest in quality control and customer service. How they get away with it, I don't know. With so many people having bad experiences with them (I literally don't know a single person who has bought or sold regularly who wasn't let down, and I hail from an area in the UK where the Kelly, Birkin or a Chanel is part of the uniform you are expected to wear - personally I am more of a
Loewe fan - so quite a lot of friends have turned to the website to sell or buy something, some good experiences, but if something goes wrong, it really does and there is no help available. eMails receive auto replies, the chat, they simply don't answer.
The problem is also contacting them, the chat is awful, I don't think the people are remotely trained or interested, if you try to email them, you often don't get the confirmation to your email, also you email them through their website, so you have no evidence that you sent the mail if there is a snag with their IT (which seems to happen frequently and makes me a bit concerned about the safety aspect), happened to a friend of mine who received the wrong item, sale was finalized (she received a dress in a different size and colour than what she bought, also a different brand), they claimed she missed the 72 hour window and offered her to relist, then relisted it as what she intended to buy but now what she received, she was waiting for them to reply. If an item gets lost in transit, they make you jump through hoops and email them a copy of your ID and a personal letter, hand written, detailing that you have not received the item (even if tracking shows you haven't), if it goes to an outsourced call center, I'm very concerned about the amount of personal information, especially since identity fraud is rife. It doesn't matter if you buy or sell, there seems very little customer protection or actual concern for the customer.
One of the positives is, that often sellers included a little note and their email with direct shipping, I'm in contact with several lovely people from all over the world who have also stopped using Vestiaire or use it very hesitantly and have bought items directly and without the inflated postage and "service" charges. I have bought and sold items without a problem, but that had more to do with the buyers and sellers being fantastic than with Vestiaire.