My advice to you is to wait on this bracelet.In terms of weight
Haha I'm a bit surprised that I'm the only one who thinks it's heavy.. maybe my weigh tolerance level is simply too low I've the 6-motif pave sweet Alhambra bracelet already so I am passing the vintage one. Still struggling any Perlee Clover - looooooove the design but don't like the feel. I'm not sure if I'll regret for getting it or regretting for not getting..
Oh and one more thing, my size is stuck between S size and M size. S is slightly tight on me but at the same time M is a bit too loose. My palms are tiny so even if M fits my wrist more the bracelet can get almost close to my fingers when I leave my hand down.. my SA told me these bracelets are not resizable nor I could special order my perfect size...
You seem to have too many hesitations and it just might not be the right piece for you. It's an expensive purchase and there are so many other lovely choices.