What excellent questions! I’d like to add a few more thoughts to the already excellent insights from
@lynne_ross,
@EpiFanatic,
@sunshineshiney,
@missie1, and
@spaul. I started with YG Guilloche Alhambra and am very happy that I did. At the time my view of VCA was very Alhambra-centric. I did not have a full boutique near me when I started my journey and am thankful that I bought my first two pieces at a boutique near where my Dad lives. Going into the boutique opened my eyes to the beauty of other lines—in particular Frivole, both WG pave and YG polished. So I encourage you to explore, explore, explore.
I stop by the boutique near my Dad once or twice a year and that is my main boutique even though VCA opened a boutique in a mall near me. I have an ongoing dialogue with my SA via text. She’ll send me pictures of new items that have come in that she thinks I might like or provide modeling shots if I ask her about something I have seen online. With her help I have tried on different pieces that I either added to my wishlist or ruled them out. As others have said, build slowly. More than once I have seen a piece on TPF, asked my SA about it and realized that she had shown it to me a year or so earlier.
A number of my favorite pieces were purchased to mark an occasion. For example, Frivole 7-Flower bracelet (wedding anniversary), WMOP Rose de Noel Brooch (Mother’s Day), and Frivole WG Pave Between the Finger Ring (milestone birthday), to name a few. My husband is especially good at identifying events or relationships to commemorate. Who am I to complain? As you think about future purchases perhaps marking an occasion is something to consider.
Above all enjoy!

Yes to purchasing pieces to mark an occasion -
@liumeng1995 - I think you will cherish your pieces even more!
I remember exactly when I purchased every piece, and the significance/story behind them, including this years HP. For
me, it makes every purchase much more special.
I waited until a milestone birthday to purchase my first pave piece (VA earrings).
I
never wanted to own VCA pendants, but after owning the pave earrings for 8 months, I realized I did need a matching pendant, and purchased it as a gift to myself to mark something significant that took place in my life at the time.
This also made me realize that pave pendants and some HPs work for me.
My purchase for my birthday this year was
never on my wishlist until I saw it IRL 1.5 years ago and tried it on.
When I texted my SA this year stating I would like it for my birthday, she replied with a nickname for this piece - a nickname for a dear friend who passed away a few years ago (my SA had
no idea about this).
2024 had been rough, and it took a toll on my mental health in ways I have never experienced before.
My dear friend struggled with mental health issues as well

. Somehow the struggles of 2024 + this purchase’s nickname came together when I needed it most. It felt like it was my friend + the Universe reminding me that all will be okay

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From my first VCA purchase in 2018 to my most recent 2024 HP: the VCA “luck” and “magic” seems to present itself to me in miraculous ways, while also telling me to “never say never”, because I ended up buying pieces that were basically on my “never list”

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