Hi! You've already received great input, so I will add my thoughts as well.Dear friends I seek your help (and frustrated because I just typed in this whole question and it got deleted...ugh). Paging especially @BigAkoya, @eternallove4bag, @880, @EpiFanatic and whoever wants to chime in to help me out.
I currently have the Frivole Small YG (photo attached so you can see proportion on my lobe). I want: A) Pave VA YG earrings, B) Single row Pave Perlee YG bracelet, C) Frivole Pave earrings (YG), D) Frivole Pave BTF ring, in no particular order. WG is something I will tackle down the road (have blingy WG earrings to suit me for now).
For C, I'm not sure if I should go with the small, since they are available, or hold out for the large Pave, if those are even attainable. I'm tall (5'9) long blond hair so I don't want them to be diminished. Don't have an opportunity to try any on for some time. If the small are basically "good" but the large "ideal" for me then I'll move on to the bracelet or something else (like B, D, or the Cartier Panthere ring I fell in love with in January) and wait.
You know, thinking on this I'm pretty sure if I had both the small and large Pave Frivole in front of me and had the chance to try on both I'd take the large in a heartbeat (ie, go big or go home), but if those are basically unattainable I won't have that choice......
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First, as @EpiFanatic mentioned, you can SO the Frivole large pave earrings.
If I had to estimate a cost, I would say it would be around $37K. How did I come up with that number?
You are basically buying two Frivole YG large pave pendants, plus maybe a little extra gold for the ear clips (vs. the thin chain on the pendant). One Frivole YG large pave pendant is $14.3K. Two Frivole YG large pendants is $28.6K. Add a 30% uplift for the SO, and it's $37.2K. Hence, the ballpark of $37K.
Another example on pricing is the Butterfly BTF ring. The yellow sapphire and diamond butterfly earrings with two butterflies is $25.4K The yellow sapphire and diamond BTF ring, with two butterflies, just like the earrings, is also $25.4K.
Hope that math helped to your to estimate the SO price. It's a ballpark of course.
If you really love love love the Frivole Large pave earring, yes, get them. However, I would not buy them just because they are bigger because to me, that's a lot of SO uplift for an earring that is not profoundly larger (the Very Large is profoundly larger, but not the Large, not to me).
I would also ask yourself what "category" jewelry is your first love. I think this is important as it helps to build a jewelry collection. For me, rings are my first love, followed by long necklaces, then bracelets, and last are earrings.
As rings are my first love, I do not hesitate spending money on a ring I love. However, I only buy earrings to match a ring or long necklace. Hence, I would not SO the Large earrings just to get something slightly bigger. Yes, the Frivole Large earrings are bigger, but they are not significantly larger in size. The small pave earrings already have tons of bling for sure. It's $37K vs. $17K, for earrings only slightly bigger.
For you, earrings may be your first love, and if yes, go for the Frivole Large pave earrings.
But... ask yourself what category is your first love... is it earrings? Do you love the Large size and have to have them? If the answer is yes to both, then go for it! Get that SO order in!
Assuming you do not want to get the Frivole Large earrings (or you do not get approved)... what would I suggest?
My thoughts on what to get...
Given your list, it seems you want to get a Frivole pave set, earrings and the BTF ring. I would prioritize those as your next pieces.
I would sell the YG Frivole earrings you have and get the Frivole small pave earrings and the matching BTF ring. I think once you get the pave earrings, you will not wear the YG ones much. For me, sparkly bling always wins over shiny metal.
Quick side note...
There was mention of earring height placement, so I want to mention depending on when you purchased your Frivole earrings, the post height may be adjustable. If you want to drop the earrings a bit, put the post in the top hole. It's all preference what you like, so just FYI here.
I vote for the Frivole small pave earrings and the matching Frivole pave BTF ring. Gorgeous set, and Frivole pave just rocks! Super sparkly, super gorgeous, and super versatile. You can wear it with a business outfit or shorts.
Just my two cents. Hope this helps in your decision, and good luck!
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