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I think it also depends on the relationship with your SA. Till this year (I may have gone a little crazy this year, I won’t lie :whut:), I only ever bought 1 or 2 pieces from VCA (far far far away from being a VIP) but my bestie and I have always been treated pretty well at our store. Before the pandemic started we used to go in every Friday to try on bling, hang out with our amazing SA/friend and then go grab coffee at the local cafe with him or just hang in the store and have cappuccino. Felt zero pressure to buy. We were always showered with gifts of flowers, chocolates, coffee table books, candles on our birthdays, mother days, Christmas and got invited to every Mother’s Day party..our SA even threw us our own private breakfast party of 2 once. I was even able to plan a surprise birthday party for my bestie this year with the help of our amazing SA at the store. He set up one of the display windows with her name on it, flowers that the store had got for her, my gift etc.

Long story short, your experience may vary from store to store and it really all depends on your SA and the relationship you have with him or her. I won’t lie when I say I cried buckets when he left mid year to go to another city.

Awwww. :heart:
 
LOL!! It’s the onyx 10-motif necklace. I think you convinced me earlier to go for the necklace instead of the bracelet. After much soul searching, I decided that I really wanted the necklace. Hopefully it will come in time for my birthday next month.
Happy birthday in advance! I love all of your action photos and your taste, and i cannot wait to see it on you!
 
Yeah I thought so! I do get my treats here and there with them but I’m sure they would end Very quickly if I don’t purchase the next bling thing...

i can imagine some billionaire lady coming in just pointing at the zip necklace and saying : I’ll get that little thing and find me earrings to match!!!!

or even custom work like Cartier...

which reminds me of heritage pieces like the TQ necklace Eva Mendez wore..::: things I’d dofor that necklace mamaaaa:nuts::hrmm:
Funny you mentioned Zip... I have a few stories to add to this fun topic...

True story... I was trying on a Zip for fun (SA brought it out from the back). SA told me the Zip was sold to a father who purchased it for his daughter's 16th birthday. The father was doing a big birthday bash event for her Sweet 16. For the party favors to be given to the guests, he ordered Vintage Alhambra pendants. :shocked:

Another true story... I was wearing my emerald ring and earring set one day. SA commented on them, and we started talking about emeralds. SA says since you appreciate fine emeralds, I want to show you an emerald and diamond necklace that was commissioned by a client. SA says you can't try it on or touch it. The client is very very picky about who handles her pieces. I told the SA I'm not even going to breathe when you show it to me... I might exhale and fog it up! :nuts: Wow... the necklace was so gorgeous.
VIPs get their pieces hand delivered to their house.

What perks do VIPs get? One final story... my friend is a VIP at another luxury brand (not VCA).
For her birthday, the luxury brand invited her and her husband to Paris for a weekend. The first night, they were driven to the luxury brand's flagship Paris boutique. The Paris boutique closed early for her and threw her a birthday party. The luxury brand paid for everything... airplane tickets to Paris (my friend lives in the US), hotel, meals at restaurants, limo & driver at her disposal for the weekend, etc...

This is the stuff of VIPs... I can't even make this stuff up it's so over the top.

All that said, for me, the gifts and perks are nice, but they are really not necessary. In a way, I feel too many gifts and perks create a sense of needed reciprocity, as in... I now feel a bond and obligation to buy from the SA and to keep buying the brand.
I buy from other luxury brands, and through the years, there were some luxury brands I went nuts over. The SA would send me photos of new items and let me have first dibs. I would get invited to events, lunches, and dinners (which I turned down). I would get gifts (I kept those! :biggrin:). The SA would "think of me first." However, there were times I felt I had to return that thoughtfulness with a purchase. It happened to me with one particular Chanel SA. Anyone who buys from Chanel knows Chanel gets new stock all the time, every season. I got too wrapped up, and I literally purchased something every two weeks from that SA. The good thing is I finally realized it, smacked myself on the head, and I woke up. I even stopped going to that SA to start over clean. Full disclosure, I did that with another SA as well (I'm a slow learner, but I do learn!).

From those experiences, I told myself I will never let myself get too close to a SA. The SA is not my best friend, and these are business transactions, albeit luxury transactions. I don't want to get caught up in the allure. I don't want the dinners, events, perks because by accepting them, for me, I feel a sense of obligation to make a future purchase. Truth be told, that is the only reason why any of us are given gifts and perks... the SA and the brand wants us to continue to buy from them.

This is just me... I'm very low profile when buying at the boutiques. Don't whine and dine me, no champagne, no food (I will however, take the chocolates To-Go as hubby loves them and I banned him from coming :biggrin:). For me, I want to stay focused on the jewelry. In a way, some SAs appreciate the simple transaction. SAs are sellers, and all sellers dream of no effort sales transactions.

Yes, we are talking here about the fun and wonderful gifts and perks when purchasing luxury items. However, put aside all the fun gifts and perks, even the brand name, and "buy what you truly love." That phrase has been said here a million times, but I think it's even more relevant in this context of not getting caught up in the allure of luxury purchases and all the freebies. Of course, my friend loves all the perks, so everyone is different. :biggrin:

Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences and hope it was helpful to some of you.
 
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Funny you mentioned Zip... I have a few stories to add to this fun topic...

True story... I was trying on a Zip for fun (SA brought it out from the back). SA told me the Zip was sold to a father who purchased it for his daughter's 16th birthday. The father was doing a big birthday bash event for her Sweet 16. For the party favors to be given to the guests, he ordered Vintage Alhambra pendants. :shocked:

Another true story... I was wearing my emerald ring and earring set one day. SA commented on them, and we started talking about emeralds. SA says since you appreciate fine emeralds, I want to show you an emerald and diamond necklace that was commissioned by a client. SA says you can't try it on or touch it. The client is very very picky about who handles her pieces. I told the SA I'm not even going to breathe when you show it to me... I might exhale and fog it up! :nuts: Wow... the necklace was so gorgeous.
VIPs get their pieces hand delivered to their house.

What perks do VIPs get? One final story... my friend is a VIP at another luxury brand (not VCA).
For her birthday, the luxury brand invited her and her husband to Paris for a weekend. The first night, they were driven to the luxury brand's flagship Paris boutique. The Paris boutique closed early for her and threw her a birthday party. The luxury brand paid for everything... airplane tickets to Paris (my friend lives in the US), hotel, meals at restaurants, limo & driver at her disposal for the weekend, etc...

This is the stuff of VIPs... I can't even make this stuff up it's so over the top.

All that said, for me, the gifts and perks are nice, but they are really not necessary. In a way, I feel too many gifts and perks create a sense of needed reciprocity, as in... I now feel a bond and obligation to buy from the SA and to keep buying the brand.
I buy from other luxury brands, and through the years, there were some luxury brands I went nuts over. The SA would send me photos of new items and let me have first dibs. I would get invited to events, lunches, and dinners (which I turned down). I would get gifts (I kept those! :biggrin:). The SA would "think of me first." However, there were times I felt I had to return that thoughtfulness with a purchase. It happened to me with one particular Chanel SA. Anyone who buys from Chanel knows Chanel gets new stock all the time, every season. I got too wrapped up, and I literally purchased something every two weeks from that SA. The good thing is I finally realized it, smacked myself on the head, and I woke up. I even stopped going to that SA to start over clean. Full disclosure, I did that with another SA as well (I'm a slow learner, but I do learn!).

From those experiences, I told myself I will never let myself get too close to a SA. The SA is not my best friend, and these are business transactions, albeit luxury transactions. I don't want to get caught up in the allure. I don't want the dinners, events, perks because by accepting them, for me, I feel a sense of obligation to make a future purchase. Truth be told, that is the only reason why any of us are given gifts and perks... the SA and the brand wants us to continue to buy from them.

This is just me... I'm very low profile when buying at the boutiques. Don't whine and dine me, no champagne, no food (I will however, take the chocolates To-Go as hubby loves them and I banned him from coming :biggrin:). For me, I want to stay focused on the jewelry. In a way, some SAs appreciate the simple transaction. SAs are sellers, and all sellers dream of no effort sales transactions.

Yes, we are talking here about the fun and wonderful gifts and perks when purchasing luxury items. However, put aside all the fun gifts and perks, even the brand name, and "buy what you truly love." That phrase has been said here a million times, but I think it's even more relevant in this context of not getting caught up in the allure of luxury purchases and all the freebies. Of course, my friend loves all the perks, so everyone is different. :biggrin:

Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences and hope it was helpful to some of you.
Oh my these stories are fun! Zip necklace for the sweet 16! Jesus Christ lol!

can I say that Iwould love to see you write some articles for big magazines about jewellery I feel you are very eloquent in bringing your knowledge to the masses lol!Like our Harrods ha la it’s own magazine that often features fine jewellery - there!

I agree with you in the sense that I felt the need to reciprocate when I got the goody basket from my VCA SA but my wallet and bank account slapped me quickly outta that thought lol I buy when I Love something (now! Before I would buy when I was down - my mom to blame who used to tell me darling if you feel off nothing helps as well as a bit of shopping spree lol)!!!
and something I know I can afford - like in trading you go in knowing you are ok to lose that money if things go sour. Probably bad comparison but that’s how I think
 
Funny you mentioned Zip... I have a few stories to add to this fun topic...

True story... I was trying on a Zip for fun (SA brought it out from the back). SA told me the Zip was sold to a father who purchased it for his daughter's 16th birthday. The father was doing a big birthday bash event for her Sweet 16. For the party favors to be given to the guests, he ordered Vintage Alhambra pendants. :shocked:

Another true story... I was wearing my emerald ring and earring set one day. SA commented on them, and we started talking about emeralds. SA says since you appreciate fine emeralds, I want to show you an emerald and diamond necklace that was commissioned by a client. SA says you can't try it on or touch it. The client is very very picky about who handles her pieces. I told the SA I'm not even going to breathe when you show it to me... I might exhale and fog it up! :nuts: Wow... the necklace was so gorgeous.
VIPs get their pieces hand delivered to their house.

What perks do VIPs get? One final story... my friend is a VIP at another luxury brand (not VCA).
For her birthday, the luxury brand invited her and her husband to Paris for a weekend. The first night, they were driven to the luxury brand's flagship Paris boutique. The Paris boutique closed early for her and threw her a birthday party. The luxury brand paid for everything... airplane tickets to Paris (my friend lives in the US), hotel, meals at restaurants, limo & driver at her disposal for the weekend, etc...

This is the stuff of VIPs... I can't even make this stuff up it's so over the top.

All that said, for me, the gifts and perks are nice, but they are really not necessary. In a way, I feel too many gifts and perks create a sense of needed reciprocity, as in... I now feel a bond and obligation to buy from the SA and to keep buying the brand.
I buy from other luxury brands, and through the years, there were some luxury brands I went nuts over. The SA would send me photos of new items and let me have first dibs. I would get invited to events, lunches, and dinners (which I turned down). I would get gifts (I kept those! :biggrin:). The SA would "think of me first." However, there were times I felt I had to return that thoughtfulness with a purchase. It happened to me with one particular Chanel SA. Anyone who buys from Chanel knows Chanel gets new stock all the time, every season. I got too wrapped up, and I literally purchased something every two weeks from that SA. The good thing is I finally realized it, smacked myself on the head, and I woke up. I even stopped going to that SA to start over clean. Full disclosure, I did that with another SA as well (I'm a slow learner, but I do learn!).

From those experiences, I told myself I will never let myself get too close to a SA. The SA is not my best friend, and these are business transactions, albeit luxury transactions. I don't want to get caught up in the allure. I don't want the dinners, events, perks because by accepting them, for me, I feel a sense of obligation to make a future purchase. Truth be told, that is the only reason why any of us are given gifts and perks... the SA and the brand wants us to continue to buy from them.

This is just me... I'm very low profile when buying at the boutiques. Don't whine and dine me, no champagne, no food (I will however, take the chocolates To-Go as hubby loves them and I banned him from coming :biggrin:). For me, I want to stay focused on the jewelry. In a way, some SAs appreciate the simple transaction. SAs are sellers, and all sellers dream of no effort sales transactions.

Yes, we are talking here about the fun and wonderful gifts and perks when purchasing luxury items. However, put aside all the fun gifts and perks, even the brand name, and "buy what you truly love." That phrase has been said here a million times, but I think it's even more relevant in this context of not getting caught up in the allure of luxury purchases and all the freebies. Of course, my friend loves all the perks, so everyone is different. :biggrin:

Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences and hope it was helpful to some of you.
You are Carrie Bradshaw of VCA :yahoo:
 
Funny you mentioned Zip... I have a few stories to add to this fun topic...

True story... I was trying on a Zip for fun (SA brought it out from the back). SA told me the Zip was sold to a father who purchased it for his daughter's 16th birthday. The father was doing a big birthday bash event for her Sweet 16. For the party favors to be given to the guests, he ordered Vintage Alhambra pendants. :shocked:

Another true story... I was wearing my emerald ring and earring set one day. SA commented on them, and we started talking about emeralds. SA says since you appreciate fine emeralds, I want to show you an emerald and diamond necklace that was commissioned by a client. SA says you can't try it on or touch it. The client is very very picky about who handles her pieces. I told the SA I'm not even going to breathe when you show it to me... I might exhale and fog it up! :nuts: Wow... the necklace was so gorgeous.
VIPs get their pieces hand delivered to their house.

What perks do VIPs get? One final story... my friend is a VIP at another luxury brand (not VCA).
For her birthday, the luxury brand invited her and her husband to Paris for a weekend. The first night, they were driven to the luxury brand's flagship Paris boutique. The Paris boutique closed early for her and threw her a birthday party. The luxury brand paid for everything... airplane tickets to Paris (my friend lives in the US), hotel, meals at restaurants, limo & driver at her disposal for the weekend, etc...

This is the stuff of VIPs... I can't even make this stuff up it's so over the top.

All that said, for me, the gifts and perks are nice, but they are really not necessary. In a way, I feel too many gifts and perks create a sense of needed reciprocity, as in... I now feel a bond and obligation to buy from the SA and to keep buying the brand.
I buy from other luxury brands, and through the years, there were some luxury brands I went nuts over. The SA would send me photos of new items and let me have first dibs. I would get invited to events, lunches, and dinners (which I turned down). I would get gifts (I kept those! :biggrin:). The SA would "think of me first." However, there were times I felt I had to return that thoughtfulness with a purchase. It happened to me with one particular Chanel SA. Anyone who buys from Chanel knows Chanel gets new stock all the time, every season. I got too wrapped up, and I literally purchased something every two weeks from that SA. The good thing is I finally realized it, smacked myself on the head, and I woke up. I even stopped going to that SA to start over clean. Full disclosure, I did that with another SA as well (I'm a slow learner, but I do learn!).

From those experiences, I told myself I will never let myself get too close to a SA. The SA is not my best friend, and these are business transactions, albeit luxury transactions. I don't want to get caught up in the allure. I don't want the dinners, events, perks because by accepting them, for me, I feel a sense of obligation to make a future purchase. Truth be told, that is the only reason why any of us are given gifts and perks... the SA and the brand wants us to continue to buy from them.

This is just me... I'm very low profile when buying at the boutiques. Don't whine and dine me, no champagne, no food (I will however, take the chocolates To-Go as hubby loves them and I banned him from coming :biggrin:). For me, I want to stay focused on the jewelry. In a way, some SAs appreciate the simple transaction. SAs are sellers, and all sellers dream of no effort sales transactions.

Yes, we are talking here about the fun and wonderful gifts and perks when purchasing luxury items. However, put aside all the fun gifts and perks, even the brand name, and "buy what you truly love." That phrase has been said here a million times, but I think it's even more relevant in this context of not getting caught up in the allure of luxury purchases and all the freebies. Of course, my friend loves all the perks, so everyone is different. :biggrin:

Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences and hope it was helpful to some of you.
You just expressed all my sentiments exactly! It's as if you're a mindreader. This should be published for all to see and think about.
 
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Funny you mentioned Zip... I have a few stories to add to this fun topic...

True story... I was trying on a Zip for fun (SA brought it out from the back). SA told me the Zip was sold to a father who purchased it for his daughter's 16th birthday. The father was doing a big birthday bash event for her Sweet 16. For the party favors to be given to the guests, he ordered Vintage Alhambra pendants. :shocked:

Another true story... I was wearing my emerald ring and earring set one day. SA commented on them, and we started talking about emeralds. SA says since you appreciate fine emeralds, I want to show you an emerald and diamond necklace that was commissioned by a client. SA says you can't try it on or touch it. The client is very very picky about who handles her pieces. I told the SA I'm not even going to breathe when you show it to me... I might exhale and fog it up! :nuts: Wow... the necklace was so gorgeous.
VIPs get their pieces hand delivered to their house.

What perks do VIPs get? One final story... my friend is a VIP at another luxury brand (not VCA).
For her birthday, the luxury brand invited her and her husband to Paris for a weekend. The first night, they were driven to the luxury brand's flagship Paris boutique. The Paris boutique closed early for her and threw her a birthday party. The luxury brand paid for everything... airplane tickets to Paris (my friend lives in the US), hotel, meals at restaurants, limo & driver at her disposal for the weekend, etc...

This is the stuff of VIPs... I can't even make this stuff up it's so over the top.

All that said, for me, the gifts and perks are nice, but they are really not necessary. In a way, I feel too many gifts and perks create a sense of needed reciprocity, as in... I now feel a bond and obligation to buy from the SA and to keep buying the brand.
I buy from other luxury brands, and through the years, there were some luxury brands I went nuts over. The SA would send me photos of new items and let me have first dibs. I would get invited to events, lunches, and dinners (which I turned down). I would get gifts (I kept those! :biggrin:). The SA would "think of me first." However, there were times I felt I had to return that thoughtfulness with a purchase. It happened to me with one particular Chanel SA. Anyone who buys from Chanel knows Chanel gets new stock all the time, every season. I got too wrapped up, and I literally purchased something every two weeks from that SA. The good thing is I finally realized it, smacked myself on the head, and I woke up. I even stopped going to that SA to start over clean. Full disclosure, I did that with another SA as well (I'm a slow learner, but I do learn!).

From those experiences, I told myself I will never let myself get too close to a SA. The SA is not my best friend, and these are business transactions, albeit luxury transactions. I don't want to get caught up in the allure. I don't want the dinners, events, perks because by accepting them, for me, I feel a sense of obligation to make a future purchase. Truth be told, that is the only reason why any of us are given gifts and perks... the SA and the brand wants us to continue to buy from them.

This is just me... I'm very low profile when buying at the boutiques. Don't whine and dine me, no champagne, no food (I will however, take the chocolates To-Go as hubby loves them and I banned him from coming :biggrin:). For me, I want to stay focused on the jewelry. In a way, some SAs appreciate the simple transaction. SAs are sellers, and all sellers dream of no effort sales transactions.

Yes, we are talking here about the fun and wonderful gifts and perks when purchasing luxury items. However, put aside all the fun gifts and perks, even the brand name, and "buy what you truly love." That phrase has been said here a million times, but I think it's even more relevant in this context of not getting caught up in the allure of luxury purchases and all the freebies. Of course, my friend loves all the perks, so everyone is different. :biggrin:

Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences and hope it was helpful to some of you.
Fun stories.
This is how I feel too. Especially now that I buy from multiple countries. I don’t want to feel an obligation to buy from any one SA. I recently purchased an item that seemed like it was out of stock for awhile. I tried my preferred location to buy from but they had none and could not transfer from another country. Tried the location it was in stock at but they wanted me to buy more to ship it. Ended up it came in stock in a 3rd location so I bought it.
 
Funny you mentioned Zip... I have a few stories to add to this fun topic...

True story... I was trying on a Zip for fun (SA brought it out from the back). SA told me the Zip was sold to a father who purchased it for his daughter's 16th birthday. The father was doing a big birthday bash event for her Sweet 16. For the party favors to be given to the guests, he ordered Vintage Alhambra pendants. :shocked:

Another true story... I was wearing my emerald ring and earring set one day. SA commented on them, and we started talking about emeralds. SA says since you appreciate fine emeralds, I want to show you an emerald and diamond necklace that was commissioned by a client. SA says you can't try it on or touch it. The client is very very picky about who handles her pieces. I told the SA I'm not even going to breathe when you show it to me... I might exhale and fog it up! :nuts: Wow... the necklace was so gorgeous.
VIPs get their pieces hand delivered to their house.

What perks do VIPs get? One final story... my friend is a VIP at another luxury brand (not VCA).
For her birthday, the luxury brand invited her and her husband to Paris for a weekend. The first night, they were driven to the luxury brand's flagship Paris boutique. The Paris boutique closed early for her and threw her a birthday party. The luxury brand paid for everything... airplane tickets to Paris (my friend lives in the US), hotel, meals at restaurants, limo & driver at her disposal for the weekend, etc...

This is the stuff of VIPs... I can't even make this stuff up it's so over the top.

All that said, for me, the gifts and perks are nice, but they are really not necessary. In a way, I feel too many gifts and perks create a sense of needed reciprocity, as in... I now feel a bond and obligation to buy from the SA and to keep buying the brand.
I buy from other luxury brands, and through the years, there were some luxury brands I went nuts over. The SA would send me photos of new items and let me have first dibs. I would get invited to events, lunches, and dinners (which I turned down). I would get gifts (I kept those! :biggrin:). The SA would "think of me first." However, there were times I felt I had to return that thoughtfulness with a purchase. It happened to me with one particular Chanel SA. Anyone who buys from Chanel knows Chanel gets new stock all the time, every season. I got too wrapped up, and I literally purchased something every two weeks from that SA. The good thing is I finally realized it, smacked myself on the head, and I woke up. I even stopped going to that SA to start over clean. Full disclosure, I did that with another SA as well (I'm a slow learner, but I do learn!).

From those experiences, I told myself I will never let myself get too close to a SA. The SA is not my best friend, and these are business transactions, albeit luxury transactions. I don't want to get caught up in the allure. I don't want the dinners, events, perks because by accepting them, for me, I feel a sense of obligation to make a future purchase. Truth be told, that is the only reason why any of us are given gifts and perks... the SA and the brand wants us to continue to buy from them.

This is just me... I'm very low profile when buying at the boutiques. Don't whine and dine me, no champagne, no food (I will however, take the chocolates To-Go as hubby loves them and I banned him from coming :biggrin:). For me, I want to stay focused on the jewelry. In a way, some SAs appreciate the simple transaction. SAs are sellers, and all sellers dream of no effort sales transactions.

Yes, we are talking here about the fun and wonderful gifts and perks when purchasing luxury items. However, put aside all the fun gifts and perks, even the brand name, and "buy what you truly love." That phrase has been said here a million times, but I think it's even more relevant in this context of not getting caught up in the allure of luxury purchases and all the freebies. Of course, my friend loves all the perks, so everyone is different. :biggrin:

Sorry for the long post, but I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences and hope it was helpful to some of you.
You're a font of wisdom as always @BigAkoya. I'm marking your post for next time I need to whack myself with a healthy dose of common sense!
 
What do they get? Tickets to events and all? I remember my mom used to get polo tickets from Hermes back in the day and usually those were in other countries so they offered to get that covered too

My neighbor is in charge of the NA boutiques for VCA. He had to develop a relationship with Hermes so that he could procure Birkins to give as gifts to VIPs. Crazy to think of just giving that away, but he said when people are spending a few million dollars, it's nothing in comparison.
 
My neighbor is in charge of the NA boutiques for VCA. He had to develop a relationship with Hermes so that he could procure Birkins to give as gifts to VIPs. Crazy to think of just giving that away, but he said when people are spending a few million dollars, it's nothing in comparison.
Wow yeah, I think that sums it all :giggle: we are the masses for VCA, the plebs hahahaha
 
Oh my these stories are fun! Zip necklace for the sweet 16! Jesus Christ lol!

can I say that Iwould love to see you write some articles for big magazines about jewellery I feel you are very eloquent in bringing your knowledge to the masses lol!Like our Harrods ha la it’s own magazine that often features fine jewellery - there!

I agree with you in the sense that I felt the need to reciprocate when I got the goody basket from my VCA SA but my wallet and bank account slapped me quickly outta that thought lol I buy when I Love something (now! Before I would buy when I was down - my mom to blame who used to tell me darling if you feel off nothing helps as well as a bit of shopping spree lol)!!!
and something I know I can afford - like in trading you go in knowing you are ok to lose that money if things go sour. Probably bad comparison but that’s how I think
I think of flowers or treats (VCA once served caviar and champagne which I didn’t ask for, need, want or eat) as a gratis treat only. I don’t ask for or expect anything, ergo I don’t feel any obligation. I personally prefer not to eat or drink when I am trying on RTW or jewelry Bc I want to focus on the item in question. (Exception is when DH gets fitted for clothing, I might eat chocolate). I don’t get bent out of shape if my VCA runs out of travel cases or even bottled water. i also don’t buy anything out of obligation, and I’m up front about whether I’m thinking of another jewelers items, for example the Bulgari serpenti tubogas diamond pg necklace may be more me, and cheaper, than the VCA Liane. I tell the all SAs, including VCA, my thought process, and I think they appreciate the honesty. No SA has ever held it against me; and I continue to get gfits and gestures.

as to gifts, I think SAs and SMs have certain leeway as to when to exercise their best judgment as to the apportioning of gratis stuff. It’s not meant as pressure but to express thanks for your loyalty as a client. In my case, I need the SAs and DHs opinion, (and if they know my taste and what I already own, that opinion is more informed) so I factor that in when deciding where to make the purchase. Having said that, how does one top a zip necklace for a sweet 16. Must be all downhill from there lol

i also want to add, unlike some ladies here, I do become close personally to certain SAs (I define this as having other contact with them outside of a work/professional setting), like @eternallove4bag. If that becomes the case, of course I will attempt to buy from them exclusively bc why not. The process from start to aftercare is made easy and pleasant. And, they have a vested interest in making sure that I am thrilled with my purchase. When I develop that kind of relationship, they Do understand if I say, hey, I’m simply not in love with it or I prefer another brand for this price point. And, I make it clear when I’m in the initial stages of looking and yes, comparing, and when I’m actually ready to buy. JMO :smile:
 
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I think of flowers or treats (VCA once served caviar and champagne which I didn’t ask for, need, want or eat) as a gratis treat only. I don’t ask for or expect anything. I prefer not to eat or drink when I am trying on RTW or jewelry. I don’t get bent out of shape if my VCA runs out of travel cases or even bottled water. i also don’t want to buy anything out of obligation, and I’m up front about whether I’m thinking of another jewelers items, for example the Bulgari serpenti tubogas diamond pg necklace may be more me, and cheaper, than the VCA Liane. I tell the all SAs, including VCA, my thought process, and I think they appreciate the honesty.

as to gifts, I think SAs and SMs have certain leeway as to when to exercise their best judgment as to the apportioning of gratis stuff. It’s not meant as pressure but to express thanks for your loyalty as a client. In my case, I need the SAs and DHs opinion, (and if they know my taste and what I already own, that opinion is more informed) so I factor that in when deciding where to make the purchase. Having said that, how does one top a zip necklace for a sweet 16. Must be all downhill from there lol

i also want to add, unlike some ladies here, I do become close personally to certain SAs (I define this as having other contact with them outside of a work/professional setting), like @eternallove4bag. If that becomes the case, of course I will attempt to buy from them exclusively bc why not. The process from start to aftercare is made easy and pleasant. And, they have a vested interest in making sure that I am thrilled with my purchase. When I develop that kind of relationship, they Do understand if I say, hey, I’m simply not in love with it or I prefer another thing for this price point. And, I make it clear when I’m in the initial stages of looking and yes, comparing, and when I’m actually ready to buy. JMO :smile:
100% agree! We should never ever feel pressurized to buy anything from anyone ever. Period. Just because a SA I am close to gives me gifts in appreciation for my business, I don’t have to reciprocate with buying more needlessly. I will buy what I want when I want. If I can withstand the pressures of shopping ‘other items’ at Hermès, I can withstand any pressure :graucho:

I do always get gifts for my SAs for Christmas as a thank you for their excellent service. My obligation ends there :biggrin:
 
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