I'm heading to vca and buying my first vca. I think I am going to get the mop vintage alahambra necklace and maybe earrings. Can't wait! Do you recommend that the earrings size should also be vintage size? Are the earrings heavy? I have very thick earlobes and some times the posts on earrings are too short. Any comments and feedback would really help as I have set up only an 1 hour appointment and want to be prepared.