Thank you. I'm sorry I think I didn't explain myself well. I'm not set on buying a new bag, and my "decent" spend is just that, decent, not great enough to produce entitlement, and I also hate the idea of being manipulative about "its my birthday" and so on. So I am fine with buying preowned, which I also think is the most realistic path for me at this time. However, since the preowned markups on even the larger Bs I would want is pretty significant, I also want to make sure the condition is pretty good. Does that seem to be the case on any I've posted? Here is the one I am most interested in:
https://www.fashionphile.com/p/hermes-togo-birkin-35-vert-de-gris-865112
I know I should be able to shake it off, but also know that too much is going on for me right now, including some literally non-first world problems like some US immigration issues in the family (I am from a developing country and while I have US citizenship many members of my family do not, some do not even have visas. As some non-US TPFers may know, having a US citizen family member can even cause problems on some occasions with applications as officers wrongly may suspect that makes relatives likely to overstay -- sorry off topic detail but I am very stressed about this in addition to other things), and I know that I just don't need the added burden of even trying to make an appointment with an SA if I'm being honest. I'm also holed up at the beach and not in the city and this definitely isn't something I'd want to do by phone/email/text and I know myself well enough to know it would become a whole thing. So, sorry for the super long post, but I am not planning to purchase a new B at this time. I am seriously thinking about buying a preloved one and am curious if the above is a good option or if the weird whatever is going on in the corners would be a reason to rule out. There are a few others at FP that appeal to me in a similar price range. I feel like anything less than 10K is an ok markup for my mental health, but would like some feedback on the bag(s)! TIA