These people are ridiculous. It's like they think they belong to some exclusive sorority. Hermes needs to do a better job of training their sales people and that's what they are SALES people. Their job is to cater to clients - not mock them or be rude or stuck up. I have not had the pleasure of shopping at Hermes and it's not because I can't afford to but because it's precisely this type of attitude that is a turn off. I have heard too many stories of rude Hermes sales associates. If I'm going to be spending money somewhere I want to be treated kindly and civilly. I want to feel welcome and not judged. Just the other day I had my first bad experience in a lux store. It was my turn to be waited on and a rude snobby couple said it was their turn next when the sa asked who was next. The sa saw me walk in the store and I made eye contact with the couple when they came In the store after me. But what did the sa do? She looked me up and down and then said the couple was next. I was dressed just fine and was carrying a high end bag. I am guessing it's because to her it was more likely the couple would buy rather than me. Rather than make a scene I simply left. I will never visit that store again. She also lost out on a big commission.
Sadly speaking this behavior of being rude is commonplace in many stores including luxury ones.
There are many professional SA's & pleasant ones at that.
You were right not to make a scene but I would also not let that experience deter me from going back into
the store. Just ignore that SA & you should be able to find a SA that would be delighted to help you..