I like both, which one to pick sight unseen?
Cashmere is classic, versatile, neutral, but maybe a bit too light?
Dijon is sunny, happy, vibrant, but maybe not as versatile?
Oh, gray would be perfect of course. I wonder if Coach realizes that. Sometimes I TRULY wonder what goes on in their design meetings... "Let's produce this beautiful, desirable, embossed croc Abigail bag in only two colors, and make them both sorta yellowish. Oh great idea!"
Dunno if this helps but the dijon is a mustard (gold and brown undertones) vs. lemony yellow. I think it will go with a lot--greys, golds greens, reds, browns, off-whites--just about anything but (ironicaly) yellow.