So in the end, this turned out to be not as difficult as I thought. I came to tpf owning only one H scarf, Fantasies Indiennes. I went through my collection and while many were seen here first and then sought after, none of them could be linked to one particular viewing or person, and the love/desire came slowly over time and repeat viewings.
There is only one that I saw on a member and was so instantly inspired that I knew I had to find it ASAP. While her coloring is quite different to mine, I knew it would work well on me as well. I had to have the design, in the exact same cw. I was in love. It wasn’t just the beauty of the scarf, but also and most especially the elan with which she wore it. I tend to only take scarf pics with more “formal” ties vs when I just chuck them on. I need to correct that. But I promise I do chuck this one on often and hope I’m channeling some of AnnaE’s wonderful style:
A horrid screenshot of her avatar, which is what did it for me:
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And on me, L’Ivresse de L’Infini:
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