"The Rich New York Women Who Love Their Fake Birkins" article in The Cut - thoughts?

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My friend has a real and fake LV bag (different styles). She’s never tried to pass of her fake one as real, even though it could. She will openly tell you it’s fake, if asked. Ask about her real bag, and she’ll tell you it’s real. Since she’s honest with what’s real and fake, everybody believes her when she says her other luxury goods are real (they’re real, bought directly from the brands).

Honestly, most people here (live in NYC, grew up in New England) have other things to worry about than if someone’s bag and/or collection is real or fake. People who do either have too much time on their hands, or are judgemental, from my experience. Those who don’t care tend to be wealthier and better mannered than those who do.

It’s also in poor taste to actively talk about your wealth here, unless you’re with close friends and/or around people who you know are of similar socioeconomic backgrounds. Similarly, it’s rude to question how someone was able to acquire expensive items.

NYC and its surrounding areas/states have some of the largest pay gaps in the country, so most kids are taught in school to not question why someone has an expensive item, when their family “can’t” afford it. Where I grew up, turning 16 meant a necklace from Tiffany’s, or a bag from LV or Chanel, on top of a new luxury car. No one who grew up here will ever ask someone else how they suddenly acquired a bunch of Hermes bags… ‘cause that kind of stuff is possible.
I am from NYC too. My friends don't talk about bags but because of my passion for bags, I've met several other women who love bags as well. When you're talking about very rare hermes bags like for instance mini kellys or exotic bags, at some point if you're active on social media, you will meet like-minded people who also love the same bags. Then you are likely to strike up conversations like "oh! You got the newest shade of the season! Tell me everything about it!"

It's not a way to brag about wealth, more like two like-minded people gushing over a hobby they both enjoy. I kept saltwater fish as a hobby before I got into handbags and if you acquire a rare mushroom coral or a rare angelfish, people will also gush over it and ask where you go it, how you're maintaining it, if you've managed to get it to keep it healthy with the right water conditions.

I went to public school in New York and I went to one which frowns heavily on showing off material items (Stuyvesant High School). When I meet up with my childhood friends, they tolerate my handbag obsession as a weird quirk much like fishkeeping. But on the other hand, I also have my internet friends whom I enjoy talking about bags with. At some point, as an enthusiast, especially if you hang out enough with other handbag lovers, people are going to want to know your bag's story.
 
Anyone else catch this comment posted in response to a recent Purseblog post "How Long Did It Take You To Save For A Birkin?"
So far it has gotten 11 upvotes.

Sofia
1 day ago

Not very long. I purchased a top tier rep from China for only $1700. Looks and feels exactly like the real thing. Every nook and cranny looks identical.
 
Anyone else catch this comment posted in response to a recent Purseblog post "How Long Did It Take You To Save For A Birkin?"

Sofia
1 day ago

Not very long. I purchased a top tier rep from China for only $1700. Looks and feels exactly like the real thing. Every nook and cranny looks identical.
A screamingly false and lame answer if ever there was one. She may have spent money on something, but what she bought wasn't an Hermes product and hence not a Birkin. And that is the takeaway for all the fakes buyers, whether done to game others or purely for self-deception. She could just as well have cut out a photo from a magazine and held it up for praise.
 
A screamingly false and lame answer if ever there was one. She may have spent money on something, but what she bought wasn't an Hermes product and hence not a Birkin. And that is the takeaway for all the fakes buyers, whether done to game others or purely for self-deception. She could just as well have cut out a photo from a magazine and held it up for praise.
I couldn't believe she was stupid enough to post it here.
 
I am from NYC too. My friends don't talk about bags but because of my passion for bags, I've met several other women who love bags as well. When you're talking about very rare hermes bags like for instance mini kellys or exotic bags, at some point if you're active on social media, you will meet like-minded people who also love the same bags. Then you are likely to strike up conversations like "oh! You got the newest shade of the season! Tell me everything about it!"

It's not a way to brag about wealth, more like two like-minded people gushing over a hobby they both enjoy. I kept saltwater fish as a hobby before I got into handbags and if you acquire a rare mushroom coral or a rare angelfish, people will also gush over it and ask where you go it, how you're maintaining it, if you've managed to get it to keep it healthy with the right water conditions.

I went to public school in New York and I went to one which frowns heavily on showing off material items (Stuyvesant High School). When I meet up with my childhood friends, they tolerate my handbag obsession as a weird quirk much like fishkeeping. But on the other hand, I also have my internet friends whom I enjoy talking about bags with. At some point, as an enthusiast, especially if you hang out enough with other handbag lovers, people are going to want to know your bag's story.
I think it genuinely is an NYC thing because while I don't care to own fakes, I also could give a crap if someone had a fake. It's weird to me reading posts that look down upon those that do. Especially ones with "ethical" considerations. Like, if you gave a crap about ethics, you would never buy from these luxury houses! Their environmental impact is probably ridiculous. Chanel doesn't need to have 6 collections a year. Yet I would never judge someone wearing a Chanel bag, because honestly, I don't care enough, I don't know their life story, and I like nice things too!

Basically, I just don't see the moral superiority of spending $1000s more on "authentic" goods. Not that I think buying fakes are any better. Just like, we're all trying to find some joy in life. you do you. Life is hard enough, for everyone, right?
 
I think it genuinely is an NYC thing because while I don't care to own fakes, I also could give a crap if someone had a fake. It's weird to me reading posts that look down upon those that do. Especially ones with "ethical" considerations. Like, if you gave a crap about ethics, you would never buy from these luxury houses! Their environmental impact is probably ridiculous. Chanel doesn't need to have 6 collections a year. Yet I would never judge someone wearing a Chanel bag, because honestly, I don't care enough, I don't know their life story, and I like nice things too!

Basically, I just don't see the moral superiority of spending $1000s more on "authentic" goods. Not that I think buying fakes are any better. Just like, we're all trying to find some joy in life. you do you. Life is hard enough, for everyone, right?

+1. What people do with their money is their own business. Don’t think anyone lives such a virtuous life to make comments about how others choose to live theirs
 
I think it genuinely is an NYC thing because while I don't care to own fakes, I also could give a crap if someone had a fake. It's weird to me reading posts that look down upon those that do. Especially ones with "ethical" considerations. Like, if you gave a crap about ethics, you would never buy from these luxury houses! Their environmental impact is probably ridiculous. Chanel doesn't need to have 6 collections a year. Yet I would never judge someone wearing a Chanel bag, because honestly, I don't care enough, I don't know their life story, and I like nice things too!

Basically, I just don't see the moral superiority of spending $1000s more on "authentic" goods. Not that I think buying fakes are any better. Just like, we're all trying to find some joy in life. you do you. Life is hard enough, for everyone, right?
I agree to live and let live. Yet, fakes are illegal and infringe on the rights of the houses that design these bags. I can't care less what anyone else carries but I will never condone fakes. I think anyone who professes to be a "fan" of the brand, will see the hypocrisy of buying fakes of that brand. I have friends who are writers and comic book artists who have their work stolen all the time and uploaded on pirating websites for free. Just because Hermes and Chanel are much bigger companies, it doesn't change the inherent fact that usage of their logo without their authorization is stealing.

I mean, I think we can all agree that stealing the work of a comic book artist who is barely able to make enough money to buy groceries is wrong. But, if we all agree that stealing from Hermes is okay, then I need to ask, at what point does it become okay? Is it when the artist makes 50 dollars off their work? Or 100 dollars? Or a million? At what point, do we say to the creator "okay you made enough money, now you must give away your creations for free."
 
I am from NYC too. My friends don't talk about bags but because of my passion for bags, I've met several other women who love bags as well. When you're talking about very rare hermes bags like for instance mini kellys or exotic bags, at some point if you're active on social media, you will meet like-minded people who also love the same bags. Then you are likely to strike up conversations like "oh! You got the newest shade of the season! Tell me everything about it!"

It's not a way to brag about wealth, more like two like-minded people gushing over a hobby they both enjoy. I kept saltwater fish as a hobby before I got into handbags and if you acquire a rare mushroom coral or a rare angelfish, people will also gush over it and ask where you go it, how you're maintaining it, if you've managed to get it to keep it healthy with the right water conditions.

I went to public school in New York and I went to one which frowns heavily on showing off material items (Stuyvesant High School). When I meet up with my childhood friends, they tolerate my handbag obsession as a weird quirk much like fishkeeping. But on the other hand, I also have my internet friends whom I enjoy talking about bags with. At some point, as an enthusiast, especially if you hang out enough with other handbag lovers, people are going to want to know your bag's story.
Fellow pegleg i see.
 
I think it genuinely is an NYC thing because while I don't care to own fakes, I also could give a crap if someone had a fake. It's weird to me reading posts that look down upon those that do. Especially ones with "ethical" considerations. Like, if you gave a crap about ethics, you would never buy from these luxury houses! Their environmental impact is probably ridiculous. Chanel doesn't need to have 6 collections a year. Yet I would never judge someone wearing a Chanel bag, because honestly, I don't care enough, I don't know their life story, and I like nice things too!

Basically, I just don't see the moral superiority of spending $1000s more on "authentic" goods. Not that I think buying fakes are any better. Just like, we're all trying to find some joy in life. you do you. Life is hard enough, for everyone, right?
You make some good points about the environmental impact of luxury goods and sustainability. However, if an Hermes, Chanel, LV or other fashion house is caught employing children, victims of sex trafficking, slaves etc, hell will rain down on their heads. Public pressure can, and has been used to change similar situations with well known companies. This won't be the case with a rep factory in China.
 
"People who do either have too much time on their hands, or are judgemental, from my experience."

Irony?

I'm shocked about the amount of people on here who are okay with rep items just because "hermes is a big company" or "its not your money, why do you care".
This is just goes along the line of stealing from walmart, or hell, robbing a Hermes store.
 
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