Hi Everyone!
I wanted to follow up on the crazy two months it took to get my money back.
Before, I had mentioned that after unsuccessful calls with The RealReal's customer service, I opened a credit card dispute with my card issuer directly on May 27th, 2023. On June 7th, the customer service team at The RealReal advised that in order for them to give me the refund, I would have to close the dispute with my card issuer. I obliged and closed the dispute.
The seller, sent me proof that the refund was issued but was not coming through to me through PayPal on June 14th. The seller then dropped the case, claiming they sent the refund, and that I was responsible for coordinating with my card issuer and PayPal to get my refund as the funds are now locked between the card issuer and PayPal, and not anymore with the seller.
PayPal advised that it may take up to 75 days for them to decide on the case, and asked me in the meantime to re-open my dispute with my card issuer. I successfully re-opened the dispute with the card issuer on July 7th, 2023 on the second try, the first try did not work, ad they had failed to notify me about it, which wasted some time. After it worked the second try, I waited to let the dispute process.
However, on July 26th, I checked my PayPal to see where the dispute was at and learned that the dispute was closed in favor of the seller. I then called my card issuer, who notified me on July 28th, 2023, that the re-dispute I opened on July 7th, was also closed in favor of the seller. I am left with no resolution, and no refund to my card. I was upset that neither PayPal nor Chase swiftly contacted me about this, wasting time I could have spent finding another method to resolve this case. I want to add that the card issuer, had provided me with unclear directions on how to re-open the dispute, and where the funds are on multiple occasions, which delayed my ability to attempt to find a resolution to this case. They also falsely claimed that I would get my refund, when it never arrived to me, then backtracking and claiming the refund never actually arrived to them back on June 26th. On July 28th, the card issuer is claiming that they sent me a letter on July 11th to update me on the re-dispute being closed in favor of the seller via a paper letter in the mail, but I had not received that. I also want to add that several PayPal representatives have done the same, claiming that cases were closed when they were not, or that funds will be issued to me, when they were not. The RealReal, also did not provide adequate service, as they kept claiming they issued the refund, but PayPal claims the refund was never submitted. There was a clear lack of communication between the customer service representatives from all three companies, which led to a lot of back and forth with them, and over 25 phone calls and several emails with them.
I then filed a complaint with the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau on 7/28. I told them everything in details, provided screenshots, documents, letters and all. The CFPB complaint notified the card issuers executive office, and I spoke with my case manager who works for the card issuer on the phone.
In just 6 days after complaining to the CFPB, the money was returned to my account on 08/03. The issue was resolved in my favor.
In this lesson I learned that closing the dispute is NEVER the right step despite being advised to do so. If you start it, let it go through, do not cancel the dispute, no matter how upset the merchant gets. Me canceling the dispute was why there was so much confusion.
Thanks all for your help!