Oh dear looks like I've been a naughty girl!. Seriously it has never been my intention to offend let alone on a personal level. I am sorry if this has happened. Please let me defend myself. My detest for the wish bone charm was borne from the fact I thought it was a pair of pliers! and was merely highlighting and questioning pandoras designers and the randomness of objects that they were doing. But then the grey matter or lack of it got the better of me and got carried away. The error I made in the short time i have participated on this thread ( about 2 weeks). was that I had treated the ladies on here like my friends and collegues. The informal me came out the too much, the tongue and cheek sense of humour gets me in trouble! In hindsight I should have been a bit more intelligent and realise these ladies on here don't know me as much as I don't know them and that my comments can and will offend and that I should not assume they know i am joking. Going forward with this matter I think I should really do the right thing and ban myself from contributing as it was never my intention to have caused such negativity and unhappiness on here which I clearly have. I don't want ladies to feel uncomfortable or that they can not part take because they have "those charms" because they feel embarrassed. I hope by me going it will restore some harmony at least and, carry on the good work that has already been achieved. I have enjoyed my short lived time here immensely very thought provoking topics and lovely pics displayed. I have met some lovely ladies I go with a heavy heart. But I think is for the best. Love and best wishes to you all 
That's just my opinion. To each their own
And I fully understand that by adding my two cents to this matter I am opening myself up to negative comments made by others. It's okay. I'm tough!:shame: