Yes thanks Aprilshack, I think I know the one now. Is it this ....?
http://www.mypandora.com.au/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=22&products_id=1297
Don't know if that link works, anyway, it's the one with the larger flowers, and costs a bit more than the regular, thinner spacers, right? (well at least it does here).
I want that one too! But right now I need to concentrate on clips for my SS/gold bracelet. Thanks Aprilshack. Wonder which charm your hubby decided on. He sounds like a good catch! My DH is over my Pandora obsession. Won't go near a store at all. We'll see about that when my birthday comes around in February!