Of course the person being cheated on isn't to blame.. but IF THEY DECIDE TO STILL BE W/ THE CHEATING LIAR after the fact, then isn't it their fault then? I mean some people are sooooo in denial that they have to see their SO in the ACT before really believing it. .
I have a story to share. A friend of mine was cheated on by her bf of many years. She actually caught the two together in the act. After that incident the "other woman" had the nerve to call a meeting with my friend telling my friend that she (my friend) has NO chance against her. After that, her bf didn't deal with that other woman anymore but my friend said she couldn't stay with the guy. However, she TRIED to stay with the guy because all her other friends were telling her to just "forgive and forget" and that it's very "normal these days for people to cheat".
So in my friend's case, she stayed with the guy for a while because all these people around her made it sound like it was something wrong with her thinking for finding cheating to be unacceptable. But thankfully, 2 years later, she did dump him because she knew she couldn't deal with something ilke that. Anyways, the gist of this story is that some ppl stay for different reasons - in this case my friend just didn't have the right people confirming with her that she SHOULD leave him, instead her other friends made her felt like she was being abnormal and unreasonable by not forgiving the guy and dealing with it