My SA found me a Favorite but when I went to the store yesterday to try it on for the first time, I couldn't get over how weak the magnetic closure is. What's been your experience with the flap - I keep reading people who complain their flap comes open randomly. Do your things fall out easily? Is there any way to make the bag more secure? If not for the closure, I would get it in a heartbeat...such a beautiful/versatile bag. FWIW, I probably wouldn't use it as a travel bag, just as everyday errand bag or nice dinner bag (without the long strap). I need to make a decision asap - help!