I think everyone needs to stop counting every dollar/euro/pound/whatever as if there is some magic number formula. There is not a buzzer that goes off on your SA’s phone or the SM’s desk that indicates that you have just qualified for a QB (much less the immediate availability of QB if a buzzer did go off!).
I find that those who aren’t counting spend are (a) buying regularly and a lot, (b) have been shopping for a long time, (c) can afford not to count, (d) much happier with their shopping experience, (e) getting offers more frequently and (f) turning down offers as much as they are accepting.
Many years ago when I first started shopping at Hermes, I was not a place in my life, lifestyle or income to get a Birkin. I enjoyed getting a scarf or an enamel bracelet from time to time. The store was always so beautiful, full of color and elegance and it was a treat to buy myself something from there. Eventually, I decided I really wanted a Birkin, but beyond the scarves and enamel, nothing was appropriate for my life to buy. So I bought a perfect one at a trusted consignment store. I paid over retail, but it was exactly what I wanted and I didn’t stress about buying things that didn’t suit me or spending more than I could. It was awesome and I was so happy! (Eventually I consigned the bag back because as it turned out, a Birkin didn’t suit my lifestyle then either!).
Many years later, I’m older, further along in my career and in a different place in my life and lifestyle. All of a sudden, the stuff at Hermes and Chanel and similar that didn’t suit me are exactly my style. So now I shop when I want to and buy what I want. I still don’t stress about the bags though. And guess what? I get offers. More than I can accept. Many that are super popular. I have no idea what my spend is. It’s a lot. I bought a ton last year and only accepted one QB. I can think of just three items off the top of my head that totaled far more than the cost of that bag. And I’m just as happy shopping now at Hermes than when I was buying myself a lovely scarf. (Though it’s nice to go more often!)
Please don’t have expectations - shopping should be fun and stress free. If you really want the bag, buy it on your terms. Trust me, you will be happier.