Thank you for your thoughtful response. I suppose I have been rushing this. The idea of having something that is a bit more unique hits my sweet spot. I didn’t know it was a possibility until my SA mentioned it to me a couple of weeks ago. . . right about the time she told me she is going in maternity leave at the end of this month. So, first, it wouldn’t hurt me to wait until she returns in September/October. And, second, I am sure I could contact the boutique manager if I wanted to a request sooner.I would slow down and savor the process. Honestly, the dreaming and planning is most of the fun of a SO.
The answers to your first two questions are "yes, but it is not totally cut and dry."
The answer to your last two questions are "It depends, but also be reasonable/know what you like and what you want and why".
I would start by reading through most of this thread, the new purchases thread, Ig searches for special order hashtags etc. Make a list of what you want in your next pieces. Format/line, length, color, delicacy/hardiness, formality/casual, versatile/special occasion, etc. For example; one thing on my wishlist is: alternating YG pave and non-pave/indestructible/versatile/semi-dressy/10 motif. They do not make it and no MTO, so it needs to be a SO. I already have most of my criteria, so then it becomes a decision only about which stones for the non-pave meet my needs. Once you get there, you should do a bunch of searches for images and have fun dreaming about it and changing your mind; then submit maybe one request and one backup request. You can also ask for two different at the same time, for example, perhaps I would get the coordinating bracelet.
Have fun!
Last week I saw the GMOP RG Magic long necklace in person and loved it. The photo online doesn’t capture the iridescence of the GMOP and how beautifully it plays with the RG. The RG Guilloche secret pendant watch was in the case next to the Magic Pendant. I loved that necklace, too, but I am not sure I’d wear a watch like that. At this point I started thinking about putting the RG Guilloche and RG GMOP together. I’ve begun looking back through this thread (great tip, thank you) and noticed another member who had the same idea. I need to ask if their SO was approved and, if so, would their share a photo. This is my first idea and doesn’t reflect the thoughtful process you suggested above. I like your line of thinking because it could be a very expensive mistake if I special order a piece or two that end up in a drawer.
Thanks for the reminder to have fun!
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