We must indeed be scarf soulmates: every word of this -- cowboy style, taking it out to admire it, constantly afraid it will slide off and yet prizing it above almost all others -- could have come straight from my brain. Maybe I should copy you on the LGL: I do love it, and I don't know why I've been so There Can Be Only One about brown scarves.
Since we've clearly got this brain-connection thing going, it would be so lovely if you could beam your Scythians experience straight to my brain too. How about it?
Did you post that exceptional scarf? I would love to see it both tied and flat.
Isn't it great? I propose that if there's brown and Brown, CaCdL might even be BROWN. Mine is walnut-colored and reminds me of a musical instrument. It would look amazing with the top you describe -- if you can get it to behave, that is.
Oh my goodness, did you actually wash the Cavalcadour Au Claire de Lune? I've been dying to know what happens to it. What happened to that strange parchment-papery texture and leathery sheen? Did any of it survive? I've handwashed other scarves of mine, but I'm in terror of even getting a drop of water on this one.
For those who don't know, CaCdL is in the "exceptional scarf" category -- it is also known as "the leather scarf," since it has that look. It has a weird, crispy texture that is the whole point of the scarf. Hermes's narrative is something about burying the silk underground by the light of the moon or some such. Whoever wrote it saw me coming a mile away, because I was half in love before I even saw it.
Anyway, it is delicate and stiff at the same time. Imagine a scarf made of the waxed paper you use for baking. It doesn't exactly drape, and if you tie it in a knot or put it through a scarf ring, it will crinkle up forever and never have that same leathery-wood sheen again . . . unless it really can be washed? is it true? and maybe ironed???