
that's the idea
There
are so-called neutral scarves and then there are personal neutrals.
Neutrals work on levels of contrasts between the same/similar shades and absence of colour (since they have almost no colour to define the design or pattern). Like a good black and white photo, a good design can be very sophisticated in a neutral and this is also why many think of the neutral variation as the definitive of any design.
Even neutral scarves have divisions between very high/hard contrast and low/soft contrast. The word 'neutral' makes it seem as though these should work for everyone but the wrong neutral can be as inappropriate as choosing the wrong colour. E.g. a geometric blk/wht scarf will suit someone with high-contrast and a dramatic personality whereas a shaded taupe will suit someone with less visible contrast between their features and wanting to create a more 'effortless' mood.
Those of us who always had a hard time wondering why neutrals looked a bit 'wrong' on us while others raved will have found modified neutrals and found personal neutrals that are not strictly neutrals in the non-colour sense of the word.
Then we get on to
personal neutrals (I'm using myself as an example).
1. The modified neutral 'neutral'. Neither of the extremes above will suit me (I have a mixture of high and low contrasts, like drama but not too neat) and I know if a scarf has blk/wht it must also have a pop of colour (like Appaloosa with the black and white horse and strong colours all around, the horse's soft irregular spots also help soften the monochrome) .
2. The 'reads like a neutral' 'neutral': close to black and white shades like the examples I've shown so far, soft white/anthracite/aubergine of Mythique Phoenix, still pretty
high-contrast but
not hard or the soft white vert-gris/black-green with some soft corral of my Flamingo Party, still soft and
muted but
not indecipherable. Other personal neutrals can be (as you rightly surmised)
shades that harmonise with someones colouring and therefore most flattering, therefore, mine could be olive
green and dark-ish so Caducee Rock and both my C'est La Fetes can be considered neutrals too.
Hope this helps XXX