OK, I got some calls yesterday.
By noon I didn't hear back from anyone so I sent an email to Mr. Sadove. It basically relates the whole affair and asks him why I should continue to do business with his company after this experience. The response seems to be a lot of people passing the buck on to other people.
Almost as soon as I clicked send, the SA at Naples, Lela, called me back to apologize for the whole situation. It must have been a coincidence because there would not have been time for her to have been contacted in regards to my email. Lela explained that she could only work with what the system would allow and said that she could run my info again, sans CC payment, and see if she could get approval for the shipment. If approved she would call me to confirm if I wanted to go ahead and pay, and we would take it from there. I appreciated that she called me with some sort of solution this time and told her I would give her an opportunity to sell the purse to me if she could sort it out and call me back to get clearance to charge the card.
Shortly after this call, I was contacted by the Head of Customer Service (whose name I did not write down and had forgotten by the end of the phone call) who said that Mr. Sadove had sent my email to her and asked her to take up the matter. She firstly apologized and assured me that this was not the image that her company wished to project. Anyway, I told Head-of-CS that if it was an issue of confirming my identity I would have been willing to go to the local store to issue payment or show ID or whatever, but my problem is that I had been dismissed without an opportunity to work things out. She didn't exactly confirm that this was the problem but she did say that the system sometimes makes mistakes and that there should not have been a problem with my purchase and it was probably some issue with the shipping address not matching the billing address. She assured me that she would get to the bottom of the issues and let me know. Then she asked me if I was still interested in the bag. I said yes. I assumed at this point that she would be getting back with me.
Later I get a call from Lela who said that they were overnighting the bag to my local store and it would be there tomorrow or the next day depending on if it was too late to overnight yet or not. She did not ask for my card number again (do they keep this info on file?) so I took this to mean that I could go and pick it up and pay for the item in store at pickup if I decide to buy it. Well, I was wrong. I admit it was terribly remiss of me not to confirm this while I had her on the phone. They have indeed gone ahead and charged my card again and the bag is apparently on its way to my local store.
It is obvious that Lela spoke w/ Ms. Head-of-CS who took my expression of enduring interest to mean "yes charge me right now" and told Lela to charge the sale and ship the bag. In my mind, yes I am interested, but I kinda meant to hear an answer why I should continue to shop with them first. Yes, I realize they are willing to take my $3000 now that I have raised a big fuss, however Why should I give it to them? It took a week to get them to deal with this properly. The manager at Naples treated me like I didn't matter, they charged up my credit card and then dismissed me as a customer. I spent all weekend wondering if my money was green enough for these people and if my card had been stolen or if there was just a snafu with the bag sale.
Yes, Lela apologized and finally was able to assist me ( I actually quite like her through all this for she was the most sincere person I have dealt with). And yes, I got a call from Head-of-CS after my long email to the CEO, but she didn't call back to follow up with my complaints later that day or make sure that I had been taken care of as I should have been to begin with. Then they forced through the sale to settle the matter. They will probably show Mr. Sadove the receipt - "See, she bought it so she's happy now".
I feel like CEO pushed responsibility off to CS, and then CS pushed to SA, and the SA simply wasn't empowered to assist me in the first place but was left to kiss my derriere in the end.