REALLY annoyed with Shopbop...
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WOW why has this thread been bumped by that girl just attacking me? I am confused as this issue is now in the process of being dealt with as i had stated on this thread THREE times now! Do people have nothing better to do than to cause drama?! Thankyou PinkSuadeSoho for being the level headed person here, i never knew a thread could cause that much animosity and ill-feeling for me typing out MY personal experience with a company...
Yeah but no need for rudeness, there is really no need for an opinion of me and my behaviour either, just help and advice is all, otherwise it just becomes a bash the OP thread 
I did not read the entire thread to see it was resolved.
But beyond that...because I wanted to simple as. I may post whichever opinions I choose to so long as they follow the rules of this board.
Look, I read the first couple of posts and posted my opinion. No biggie. I did not get past the second page to honest to read your many, many, MANY emotional (in MY opinion) posts. The sight of it was daunting with all the exclamation marks, paragraphs etc.
But excellent.... situation has been resolved, wonderful.
I wasn't attacking you, just offering my opinion. And I can offer my opinion at any juncture in the conversation I choose without being obliged to read every single post you made to see that it was resolved. Yada Yada.
But as an aside, let's not talk about being level-headed or bumping threads, because if I remember from reading this very exhaustive thread; that was one of the many grievances aimed at you OP. And at the risk of sounding trite: Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones.
Further, I can post my opinion yet again should I choose. The only thing amending that would be a moderator telling me not to.
Well you know what nevgirl? - the whole point of you posting was not to give advice or to aid the situation but rather to give your (very uncalled for) opinion, you gave it, now why carry on coming back here and going on and on and ON?!
You admitted yourself that you didn't bother to read further enough to see that i was reaching a resolution with the company and was only going to come back on this thread to comment on progress WHEN there was anything to share....
Yes you are allowed to give your opinion but i think it is pretty obvious that it is a biased opinion and generally in situations whereupon all you care to do in a thread is attack another member (and in your case the OP) then members are advised to take it to PM as not only does it keep bumping threads that have no need to be bumped but i am pretty sure is offputting to new members who may feel very unwelcome and concerned at what appears like bullying from one member attacking another in a situation that i would call kicking a dog when she/he is down...
You admitted yourself that you didn't bother to read further enough to see that i was reaching a resolution with the company and was only going to come back on this thread to comment on progress WHEN there was anything to share....
Yes you are allowed to give your opinion but i think it is pretty obvious that it is a biased opinion and generally in situations whereupon all you care to do in a thread is attack another member (and in your case the OP) then members are advised to take it to PM as not only does it keep bumping threads that have no need to be bumped but i am pretty sure is offputting to new members who may feel very unwelcome and concerned at what appears like bullying from one member attacking another in a situation that i would call kicking a dog when she/he is down...
Just send the bag back. No company will give you a refund unless they've received the item. Put yourself in their shoes. There are tons of dishonest customers who lie about defected products.
If they don't give you a refund, just file a dispute with your credit card company.
This is what I have learned to do if the retailer is not Saks, Neiman Marcus or Bergdorf Goodman: Before purchasing the bag, call or email customer service and pretend you are having a problem with a bag you purchased. Before making the call, have a list of questions prepared to include how shipping and any other fees will be refunded. This is how I investigate a merchant before spending money with them.
Platinum, honestly...settle down. You miss my point. No one has gone on and on and on ON in this thread but YOU. I am human yes I will have an opinion and that opnion WILL be biased...that is what an opinion is.
I don't have to offer you any sort of advice. When one starts a thread you open yourself up to all sorts of posts. YOU do not control the thread you do NOT own it, moderate it, decide what is fair or what is not, or what is uncalled for. It is not the "Platinum - Gurly Forum" it is the "Purse Forum" Now of course you can think my opinions are uncalled for, or what have you...because that is your opinion.....see how that works?
Not once have I attacked you. So leave it now.
A quick gander at another thread shows you happily modeling your Rococo. So apparently you've got it worked out. And that is what matters. Cheers.
I don't have to offer you any sort of advice. When one starts a thread you open yourself up to all sorts of posts. YOU do not control the thread you do NOT own it, moderate it, decide what is fair or what is not, or what is uncalled for. It is not the "Platinum - Gurly Forum" it is the "Purse Forum" Now of course you can think my opinions are uncalled for, or what have you...because that is your opinion.....see how that works?
Not once have I attacked you. So leave it now.
A quick gander at another thread shows you happily modeling your Rococo. So apparently you've got it worked out. And that is what matters. Cheers.
WOW nevgirl you really are obsessed and invested in this aren't you??? It appears to me like you are TOO invested for a fairly new poster, same as the other poster who has all of a sudden disappeared after her tirade on here, do you not know when to leave things alone?
And everything you have done on this thread has been argumentative, rude, spiteful and overbearing, did you never hear of the saying 'if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all' ??? Yes it is an open forum, and NOWHERE did i say i owned this thread (or this board either) i am well aware that i am just one member on here that joins in with everyone else, what i don't understand is why you seem so determined to come on here again and again having a go? YES i reply because i was the one who started the thread and when people come on here and respond ro me personally (whether to be helpful or in your case antagonistic) then i WILL respond, that is my nature...
It makes zero sense to me to go on a thread that i have no helpful input to give just to be horrible to the OP, unless you are involved with the company and you are attempting to defend them (which BTW you are doing a bad job of) Haven't you considered that anyone else that works this out will be afraid of dealing with the company for fear of these repurcussions if they dare say anything negative?!
Now i had a negative experience with Shopbop, i will never shop with them again, and more to the point after several PMs from members who wished to remain anonymous from fear of being attacked by the piranhas on this thread i became too weary of even sending the bag back so went to a seamstress who did a rather good job (the best she could do) of repairing the handle and therefore YES i would rather keep the bag and carry on than carry this on any longer other than to state that i will NEVER shop with the company again and will take my business elsewhere,
THERE - drama over, you keep coming on here and bumping the thread after the fact is just silly and more to the point prevents it from fading down the page and becoming a relic, you are knocking it back to the top each time with NO REASON to,
Now i wish to forget it and move on, i suggest that you do too.
And everything you have done on this thread has been argumentative, rude, spiteful and overbearing, did you never hear of the saying 'if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all' ??? Yes it is an open forum, and NOWHERE did i say i owned this thread (or this board either) i am well aware that i am just one member on here that joins in with everyone else, what i don't understand is why you seem so determined to come on here again and again having a go? YES i reply because i was the one who started the thread and when people come on here and respond ro me personally (whether to be helpful or in your case antagonistic) then i WILL respond, that is my nature...
It makes zero sense to me to go on a thread that i have no helpful input to give just to be horrible to the OP, unless you are involved with the company and you are attempting to defend them (which BTW you are doing a bad job of) Haven't you considered that anyone else that works this out will be afraid of dealing with the company for fear of these repurcussions if they dare say anything negative?!
Now i had a negative experience with Shopbop, i will never shop with them again, and more to the point after several PMs from members who wished to remain anonymous from fear of being attacked by the piranhas on this thread i became too weary of even sending the bag back so went to a seamstress who did a rather good job (the best she could do) of repairing the handle and therefore YES i would rather keep the bag and carry on than carry this on any longer other than to state that i will NEVER shop with the company again and will take my business elsewhere,
THERE - drama over, you keep coming on here and bumping the thread after the fact is just silly and more to the point prevents it from fading down the page and becoming a relic, you are knocking it back to the top each time with NO REASON to,
Now i wish to forget it and move on, i suggest that you do too.