UGh. My wedding is in 5 days and I STILL haven't heard from some people. I have called, emailed, to no avail. I called my mother and grandmother to get them involved. EVEN my mother says 'well that's just how our people are. It's a buffet, it's ok. They can just show up." That's great! What about the seating arrangements, charts, assignments?????? We have a caterer and are paying by the head. I have to have a confirmed number to him TODAY. I have favors to make and things to print. I sent invitations a LONG time again with an addressed STAMPED envelope. It's not that difficult people! check the damn box and send it back. And this doesn't even count the only 3 RSVPs we've received from the rehearsal dinner invites. Please, please, please RSVP!