Everybody here has given such great advice, that there's not much more for me to say. But I'll try to say a few things
1. The relationship that you and your mother have is VERY...disfunctional? I'm sorry. I couldn't think of another word to use for it. The fact that you are in your late twenties, an adult, who is responsible and she still hits you?! I'm sorry, but that's not right. I don't know anything about Asian culture, but I think you know better to know that you don't deserve that...
2. This may sound harsh, but why are you scared of being 'disowned'? You're obviously miserable in the situation that you are in now - and if you truly want to be happy and independent, then maybe that's something that you need to consider. I can't imagine that any mother would actually disown her child for wanting to be independent. To me, this sounds like one of those things where mom is scared of you going away, because then there will be the "empty nest". I'm assuming that your siblings are older than you or have already moved out, gotten married, etc. Maybe your mom is scared of being alone without children and this is her way of trying to keep you there?
3. WHY the hell is she abusing your dog? That would have been enough reason for me to run FAR FAR away from that situation.
I hope that everything works out for you.
1. The relationship that you and your mother have is VERY...disfunctional? I'm sorry. I couldn't think of another word to use for it. The fact that you are in your late twenties, an adult, who is responsible and she still hits you?! I'm sorry, but that's not right. I don't know anything about Asian culture, but I think you know better to know that you don't deserve that...
2. This may sound harsh, but why are you scared of being 'disowned'? You're obviously miserable in the situation that you are in now - and if you truly want to be happy and independent, then maybe that's something that you need to consider. I can't imagine that any mother would actually disown her child for wanting to be independent. To me, this sounds like one of those things where mom is scared of you going away, because then there will be the "empty nest". I'm assuming that your siblings are older than you or have already moved out, gotten married, etc. Maybe your mom is scared of being alone without children and this is her way of trying to keep you there?
3. WHY the hell is she abusing your dog? That would have been enough reason for me to run FAR FAR away from that situation.
I hope that everything works out for you.