ok so its not a handbag or purse BUT WOULD U GUYS SPEND THIS MUCH ON A BRACELET?!?!!?

[chloehandbags]

but im thinking i cant do it its so mcuh $ for me i have to save it for a bag,,, AH ugh dont know what to do!

If you don't really want it, don't buy it. Especially if you need a bag more.

 

[PinkPudding]

How long have you wanted it and do you want it more than anything else you could buy for the same amount?

I think you need to imagine that it has sold out and you don't have one. How do you feel?

If you feel really disappointed, then you should buy it!

That's what I do, anyway!

^ ITA!

 

[pquiles]

She may be upset...sure, ..but you know what? I think she'll understand if you talk with her and tell her how you feel. An offer of a small amount for her trouble is a kind gesture on your part, but I think if she lists it again, she would probably get a quick sale. Your body is telling you this may not be for your..Go with your feeling.

 

[chloehandbags]

^^ Thanks PinkPudding!

I love your name, BTW!

 

[chloehandbags]

She may be upset...sure, ..but you know what? I think she'll understand if you talk with her and tell her how you feel. An offer of a small amount for her trouble is a kind gesture on your part, but I think if she lists it again, she would probably get a quick sale. Your body is telling you this may not be for your..Go with your feeling.

ITA.

A decent seller will understand that people sometimes change their minds.

I also agree that would be a kind gesture to pay her a small amount for holding it, though.

 

[helpl!!! slush]

thanks everyone so much for your advice

When i try and imagine if it was sold out and i dont have one i wish i did its so cute but i start to think ok i could put that with my birthday $$ and buy a nice bag for twice as much

i think i am going to write her and tell her i have changed my mind, WHIICH i will prob. regret afterwards but ugh the feeling i got when i was about to press the send $ button was so like unsure and uncomfy i just feel like it isnt right for me,,,

i guess with a bag i know you pay for the name like with anything but the quality and usefulness of it make it make sense to me


but the bracelet although i nkow it would look SOO cute,,, its not too practical or useful except as decoration and i think i would maybe rather buy a nice silver or white gold bracelet for that $ if i am going to spend iit on jewelry

ugh i feel SOO bad im gonna offer to send her $10 just as a thankks for holding on to it,,, do you think thats enough!?
thanks guys you helped me see how i really really feel about spending that on a bracelet!

 

[ruusu]

10$ is a nice amount to give her. Im sure she'll understand.

 

[chloehandbags]

^ ITA.

 

[helpl!!! slush]

thanks everyone

i just sent her an email *gulp* and i offred to send her 10-15 if she likes i apologized profusly and just tried to explain that it was hard for me when its almost $300 to put to a bracelet when its so hard for me to have $ for even the bags i love

and id love to save and get a really nice bag so i have to just hope she understands

THANKS AGAIN EVERYONE!

 

[GerGirl]

I know that a lot of members have and use it... Personally, I wouldn't get it.
1) it's not really my style,
2) it's way too expensive IMO for what it is,
3) I'd rather save the money for a bag.

 

[iqaganda]

worth it!

 

[Miss Sooky]

Do you think you'll still love it in 6 months or even a year? That is quite a good test for me when I am thinking of buying something . . .

 

[boudoir]

I wouldn't get it as this style is very 80's, not that it's bad, it's just you might get bored quickly with it...

 

[lara0112]

I am saying NO but only bec the bangle to me seems to be a sort of 'now' thing - and I prefer to spend this much money on something that will last a little while (having said that: I don't have that much money so this is why. If I had it I would also buy it, I think)

BUT if you love it and you think you will wear it a lot, hey why not! I will be honest with you - if you asked me for 2 weeks to hold something only to tell me then that you don't want it after all - I would be a little upset.... sorry, just being honest. I might understand but I would still be upset.

 

[lara0112]

oh, just saw that you offered some money for holding it - that is so nice of you!