^Condolences, I'd go with black box Kelly. May be Ok for the deceased & family but who knows about the rest and this is not something you want to hear about it for the rest of your life, .
Well, I flew in the face of convention and took the RED BAG!!!! And given that most the women wore purple, red and hot pink with really, really big hats I have to admit to being one of the more conservatively dressed guests!
One thing though....I had the most fun I ever had at a funeral! Loud, gospel music and some really good food afterward!