I thought the same way! My first Hermes bag was the B35 in Clemence and the leather was so soft and buttery. When I got my Togo Kelly, it felt a little dry... I'm hoping it gets better over time but from my two experiences, I do prefer the feel of Clemence over Togo but the love lightness of Togo.
My T stamp togo bag feels very dry and the leather seem thin. Very different from my togo bag that is a few years old.
Togo... Love the veining and way it looks. I do notice the recent Togo is thinner and more "matte" but don't think it is like sandpaper.. have no issues with the new characteristics. carry smaller bags and while I like some natural slouch I won't like it to be too soft hence have always preferred Togo over clemence and I also prefer smaller grains. One upside of the newer Togo bags I find it looks new for longer plus it's light!
Anyway to OP you have to be comfortable with the bag... Take a look today again if you still cringe at it perhaps you can check with a few resellers what price you can fetch... Good luck!
I thought I was the only who noticed how "dry" new Togo feels. I am quite bothered of how thin the leather to be honest but I'd take Togo over Epsom or Swift as its still more resilient to scratches.