I don't think that's really anyone's business how much OP spends.
OP - I'm sorry you were banned...but if you're purchasing a lot and most of it is getting damaged, they're probably doing it to save themselves money. Maybe you could contact UPS and complain that all of your packages are getting damaged. They should definitely look into that. Honestly, if that happens again, I wouldn't even accept the package!
I did not mean to offend the OP or anyone and if it came off that way, I am sorry. I guess I just find it so foreign because in my world, 3k is always spent is such un-fun ways like a hot water tank or a furnace or some other boring necessity of life. At least washers and dryers are soooo colorful now though! Sorry really.