Maintaining an H relationship

[papertiger]

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[Jjj55]

Good morning. I received my qb a few days ago - it was not my absolute top choice, I do like the bag (gold on gold k32). My husband was there with me in the store and paid for it - they did not want to put the bag under his account (very long story why - but this qb had almost no pre spend, so hypothetically it could have been done under his account) How do I get my second qb? Is that possible?! I really want b25 sometime this year 👐🏻🫶🏻💗 on top of it, I usually shop with a different sa at a different location 🙈 thank you! 🌸

 

[BreakfastCake]

I was in similar situation with my birkin sellier. It was boxy and bumped into things just walking around the house. It sat on my shelf about a year and a half and I decided to let it go. I had a problem with H soon after that as H found out I sold this bag. It was a difficult situation and pretty much end of H relationship for me but somewhat it’s a better and healthier option to stop playing H game. Without that unpleasant situation, I might carry on spending £10-£20k per year on bags I don’t need. Now I have the fund I saved in 2023 and I know 2024 will be quite a good financial year. I no longer have to worry about “What if I get offer a bag this month? Do I have enough saving to pay?”

Could you DM me too please?

 

[acrowcounted]

Good morning. I received my qb a few days ago - it was not my absolute top choice, I do like the bag (gold on gold k32). My husband was there with me in the store and paid for it - they did not want to put the bag under his account (very long story why - but this qb had almost no pre spend, so hypothetically it could have been done under his account) How do I get my second qb? Is that possible?! I really want b25 sometime this year 👐🏻🫶🏻💗 on top of it, I usually shop with a different sa at a different location 🙈 thank you! 🌸

First QB or one millionth QB, the key is to be loyal, be easy, and shop often. If you now have purchases on your profile under two different stores, it will be more difficult since there is now evidence of your “disloyalty” and each store won’t really know if they should take you seriously as their unique customer, especially for a much more difficult bag to get like the B25 (vs a K32). “why give her a coveted bag when she can just go to that other store and get a bag instead?” Pick a store, stay loyal and spend.

 

[gogingercat]

First QB or one millionth QB, the key is to be loyal, be easy, and shop often. If you now have purchases on your profile under two different stores, it will be more difficult since there is now evidence of your “disloyalty” and each store won’t really know if they should take you seriously as their unique customer, especially for a much more difficult bag to get like the B25 (vs a K32). “why give her a coveted bag when she can just go to that other store and get a bag instead?” Pick a store, stay loyal and spend.

I know loyalty has been discussed a lot here but is a home store in one country + shopping in Paris on vacation fine? I will be going to paris this year and I want to try and get some SLGs and petit H items. Because as I understand it the Paris purchases don't seem to be visible to a SA in the US unless it's a QB right? Thanks

 

[Luvmyfamily]

Can you dm too? Thank you.

I’ll dm you.

 

[acrowcounted]

I know loyalty has been discussed a lot here but is a home store in one country + shopping in Paris on vacation fine? I will be going to paris this year and I want to try and get some SLGs and petit H items. Because as I understand it the Paris purchases don't seem to be visible to a SA in the US unless it's a QB right? Thanks

Yes, in relative terms this is “fine”. My personal risk adverse advice would still be not to “gloat” about the things you buy in Paris with your home SA once you get back though.

 

[ArielS]

Wow!! How did this thread go from a Support group to “I’ll DM you / Please DM me”???

Can this thread go back on topic please, thank you.

Feel free to delete my post if it's off topic. I tried to edit it but edit button disappeared.

 

[Jjj55]

Mak

First QB or one millionth QB, the key is to be loyal, be easy, and shop often. If you now have purchases on your profile under two different stores, it will be more difficult since there is now evidence of your “disloyalty” and each store won’t really know if they should take you seriously as their unique customer, especially for a much more difficult bag to get like the B25 (vs a K32). “why give her a coveted bag when she can just go to that other store and get a bag instead?” Pick a store, stay loyal and spend.

Makes sense! So basically I am screwed for another bag this year? 🙄👀👀

 

[acrowcounted]

Mak

Makes sense! So basically I am screwed for another bag this year? 🙄👀👀

Its impossible to say, especially without knowing your region, but I'd plan to spend at least 2-3:1 before reasonably expecting a B25 offer to come this year. Your spend and attitude is really all you can control in this situation. If you go in a buy a $60k couch with a smile, it'll be simple!

 

[FrenchNewbie]

I’ll dm you.

Can you DM me as well, I'd like to know how this happened

 

[Jjj55]

Its impossible to say, especially without knowing your region, but I'd plan to spend at least 2-3:1 before reasonably expecting a B25 offer to come this year. Your spend and attitude is really all you can control in this situation. If you go in a buy a $60k couch with a smile, it'll be simple!

😅😂🤣😫🙈🫶🏻🙄 yes understood lol laughing here

 

[Crapples]

Its impossible to say, especially without knowing your region, but I'd plan to spend at least 2-3:1 before reasonably expecting a B25 offer to come this year. Your spend and attitude is really all you can control in this situation. If you go in a buy a $60k couch with a smile, it'll be simple!

Agreed. I hate to say it @juliajjj accepting the 32 reset you. Maybe prioritize spending on your husband’s profile with your husband’s SA (ps I don’t quite understand how it wasn’t on his profile to begin with if he paid but if that’s the case so be it).

 

[Jjj55]

I kept saying but he is paying. He was in the store with me. They said the bag was held for me so it must be done under my profile. Did not make sense to me - seems like rule bendy. They should have put it under his account. Ugh I am a bit traumatized by this experience

Agreed. I hate to say it @juliajjj accepting the 32 reset you. Maybe prioritize spending on your husband’s profile with your husband’s SA (ps I don’t quite understand how it wasn’t on his profile to begin with if he paid but if that’s the case so be it).

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[FrenchNewbie]

I kept saying but he is paying. He was in the store with me. They said the bag was held for me so it must be done under my profile. Did not make sense to me - seems like rule bendy. They should have put it under his account. Ugh I am a bit traumatized by this experience

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Or I guess you could have easily walked out and left the bag for someone else to purchase.

 

[Daydrmer]

Good morning. I received my qb a few days ago - it was not my absolute top choice, I do like the bag (gold on gold k32). My husband was there with me in the store and paid for it - they did not want to put the bag under his account (very long story why - but this qb had almost no pre spend, so hypothetically it could have been done under his account) How do I get my second qb? Is that possible?! I really want b25 sometime this year 👐🏻🫶🏻💗 on top of it, I usually shop with a different sa at a different location 🙈 thank you! 🌸

It was your profile that was approved for the bag so it had to go under yours.

For clarity, the boutique you got the K32 from, you have a profile there as well as your husband? Then there’s second boutique where you have a profile as well? Is that what you’re saying.