Thank you so much to everyone who kindly replied to my post, I really appreciate all the helpful advice and opinions!
I guess I was a bit naive going into the remote “relationship” with my SA. To be fair, when I initially contacted her I did ask her if she was OK working with me as a remote client & that I completely understood if it was too difficult etc. She told me it was no problem & that I could text her anytime with my requests & she will always get back to me. And she reassured me that if she doesn’t respond right away it’s because she is busy with in store shoppers & she will reply back as soon as she gets free time. So it does seem like we don’t get any allotted time as remote clients, it’s literally just whatever scraps of time they may find throughout the day in between helping the in store clients.
I must also say, the few times I did shop in store with my SA, she was responding to texts/was on her phone while I was browsing, trying stuff on, which I was totally OK with.
But that seems to be the little bits of attention remote buyers are getting.
I’m actually fine with the amount of time that is spent on me, I’m not at all a needy, demanding type of shopper/person. I only text if I’m ready to buy & if available I pay & I’m done til the next time, which is why I figured a remote relationship would work just fine for me as I’m not one to browse, ask a bunch of questions, chit chat etc.
I also don’t mind waiting days for a response either, I’m never in a rush for any Hermes items. I guess I just didn’t expect to be so low on the totem pole when it came to actually securing stuff.
I will say if I had to choose between being offered QBs or being offered all the other popular items, of course I would choose the QBs.
I bring this up because I have two friends, one whose home store is the South Coast Plaza in CA and another BH. While they have easily been able to get items such as Rodeos/Pegasus, popular small leather Goods, several chypres, popular dishware pieces (for example the sushi plates), picotins, etc. they have yet to be offered a QB and one of them is at over 2:1 spend & It’s been a year & half. When they asked for an update, the SAs said they won’t be able to offer them in 2022 & it will likely be sometime in 2023! And of course they are both very frustrated. This was the reason that I initially chose not to make SCP or BH my home stores, because I had heard how competitive it was with all the VVIPs, even though they are quite close to me & I could pop in weekly. So, overall, I feel I made the best decision for me.
I guess I just have to adjust my mind set to not expect to get popular items via phone order.
It’s a big learning curve for me coming from being a die hard Chanel shopper for more than a decade & getting instant gratification most of the time quite easily, even via phone orders.
And with Chanel the SAs would tell me exactly where I am on the reserve list & approximately when to expect the item since they know how many pieces are coming in. With H, there is NONE of that for me. Just, “ok I’ll put you down.” And then goodness knows when or if it’ll ever materialize. I think I’ll just not ask for popular pieces until I’m in the store, or about to go in, otherwise my ask will likely drop into the abyss & be forgotten.
As for my husband’s profile,
He’s not a Hermes shopper by any means, so the bulk of his purchases would be items for me lol I thought about him working with someone at BH since it’s the closest store to us &
it seems they do have great stock.
I’m not really looking to be offered 4 QB per year, as it’s not in my budget, unfortunately, so it would be to open up options for other popular pieces that I’m having so much trouble getting from my SA/boutique. And I think it would be nice to have a store we can just pop into spontaneously & see what’s in stock instead of having to rely on hearing back from an SA re availability every single time. So I think maybe this might be the best option for us?
Thank you again for all the lovely advice and opinions, it’s so helpful to just write it all out and hear all your thoughts & learn from your experiences as well!