Maintaining an H relationship

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Nahreen and PJW thanks so much for the advice! Yes, I would ultimately love to get a B/K/C but am not in the market just yet, so haven’t brought it up - wedding planning is taking most of my shopping funds! So I’m thinking it’ll be a couple years before I’m ready to pull the trigger on the big ticket items.

Since I’m still new to H, most of my wishlist seems to be things which are readily available online and in basic colors, so I imagine my boutique will have them.

These H games are crazy but the beauty of the products keeps me coming back and the obsession is real! As my “relationship” with my SA isn’t exactly extensive, I cant imagine it would be a big deal to buy a clic clac here or there from other locales. But I also want to be careful not to get “blacklisted” or whatever for future purchases!
 
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Of course you won't get blacklisted for buying a Click-Clack from another store.
Just enjoy the Hermes experience when and where you can.
In fact, the wider your experience the better you will be placed for that big purchase.
Don't fuss about your local (how many hours away, that you visit once or twice a year) store.
By the time you are ready to make the big purchase you could be in another state or country.

p.s. All good wishes for the wedding.
 
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PJW5813 said:
Of course you won't get blacklisted for buying a Click-Clack from another store.
Just enjoy the Hermes experience when and where you can.
In fact, the wider your experience the better you will be placed for that big purchase.
Don't fuss about your local (how many hours away, that you visit once or twice a year) store.
By the time you are ready to make the big purchase you could be in another state or country.

p.s. All good wishes for the wedding.
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Much appreciated! [emoji4]
 
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Ceeje89 said:
Much appreciated! [emoji4]
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Honestly, it really is best to keep all your purchases from one country under one SA at one store. B/K/Cs are offered as a reward to loyal clients from the individual store, not the brand. I know you said that you aren't ready for one of those yet but it's never too early to lay a sturdy foundation.
 
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acrowcounted said:
Honestly, it really is best to keep all your purchases from one country under one SA at one store. B/K/Cs are offered as a reward to loyal clients from the individual store, not the brand. I know you said that you aren't ready for one of those yet but it's never too early to lay a sturdy foundation.
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Appreciate the opposing point, the “lay the foundation” was my initial thought process when posting this question...I’m such a planner, I’m planning hypothetical bag purchases years in advance! Ha!

It really is silly, isn’t it? Having such an internal debate over whether I should/shouldn’t buy a simple bracelet at a different store!? The struggle is real [emoji854]
 
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PJW5813 said:
Ceeje89, Nahreens's question is important and if getting a Birkin or Kelly from you local store is your aim, have you made that clear? Remember you are the client and stop trying to second guess rules and regulations that are as intangible as air.
'Relationships with lovely SAs' often end in tears.
How many times have you met? Once or twice a year!
How many times have you bought something? A couple!
What happens if she leaves for some reason? Where is your 'relationship' then?
I think it is nice to shop in one store if it suits your buying convenience, but don't let the SAs there take your purchasing for granted. If they know that you might buy items from other stores, it gives them some incentive to keep your custom.
From what you have written, just enjoy the experience of shopping in other stores.
If you are pleasant, enthusiastic and knowledgable about Hermes you have more chance having walk in success elsewhere than in a store you visit once or twice a year to buy little buts and pieces.
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I can attest to this. Multiple times.
 
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Ceeje89 said:
Appreciate the opposing point, the “lay the foundation” was my initial thought process when posting this question...I’m such a planner, I’m planning hypothetical bag purchases years in advance! Ha!

It really is silly, isn’t it? Having such an internal debate over whether I should/shouldn’t buy a simple bracelet at a different store!? The struggle is real [emoji854]
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Not silly at all!!! If your goal is a B/K/C, then planning years in advance isn’t a bad idea. That will give you time to build a relationship with the store and an SA. I did the same thing. Was interested in H, but not ready for a bag yet. I bought things for a couple years without ever mentioning it. When the timing was right the flood gates opened. That said, I always made an H purchase whenever I traveled to a city with an H. I like having a story for each of my pieces. Never anything huge, but a bracelet, scarf, or belt etc. It had never harmed my relationship as I still buy plenty from my store.
 
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Yes I agree with acrowcounted, start with a sturdy foundation; I feel loyalty is probably the biggest factor into it; I have stuck with the same store for almost 6 years. Even thought the closest H store to me is 30 mins away, I drive 4 hours to the same H store I've been shopping with. I always stick to the same SA and before she offered me any B,K, or C, I would stop by every 3-5 months and buy shoes, accessories, or jewelry (silver) which I've been doing for 1-2 years; usually accumulating to 1-3K USD per trip. Until recently, she calls me when new bags come in and the H games are over. I get to choose which bags she offers and usually she offers me 2-3 choices and I spend X amount for the bag (if bag is around 10K I have to spend 4K). Just stick to your SA and stay loyal. Patience is key.
 
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Hi ladies. I’m new to this relationship thing with SA:)
I am trying to maintain my relationship with one SA in Paris and I emailed her on Christmas and congratulated her but I never got any response. Should I be concerned or it’s a regular thing? Sorry if it’s a stupid question.
 
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Solday said:
Hi ladies. I’m new to this relationship thing with SA:smile:
I am trying to maintain my relationship with one SA in Paris and I emailed her on Christmas and congratulated her but I never got any response. Should I be concerned or it’s a regular thing? Sorry if it’s a stupid question.
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I think your SA in Paris was probably busier before and during Christmas than Santa Claus himself, so I wouldn’t take it personally if she didn’t respond. I’m sure when she saw the message she appreciated the gesture; she probably didn’t have enough hours in the day to respond to everyone.
I messaged mine to check on everyone soon after the protests started and she was very appreciative about it; I messaged her again on Christmas and she didn’t respond. No big deal.
 
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blondissima777 said:
I think your SA in Paris was probably busier before and during Christmas than Santa Claus himself, so I wouldn’t take it personally if she didn’t respond. I’m sure when she saw the message she appreciated the gesture; she probably didn’t have enough hours in the day to respond to everyone.
I messaged mine to check on everyone soon after the protests started and she was very appreciative about it; I messaged her again on Christmas and she didn’t respond. No big deal.
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Hi! How did you email your SA in Paris? Do they have personal email? I am also new to this :)
 
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blondissima777 said:
I think your SA in Paris was probably busier before and during Christmas than Santa Claus himself, so I wouldn’t take it personally if she didn’t respond. I’m sure when she saw the message she appreciated the gesture; she probably didn’t have enough hours in the day to respond to everyone.
I messaged mine to check on everyone soon after the protests started and she was very appreciative about it; I messaged her again on Christmas and she didn’t respond. No big deal.
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Thank you dear for taking you time answering me! I only hope that she saw my message.
 
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Solday said:
Thank you dear for taking you time answering me! I only hope that she saw my message.
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No problem.
Also, one thing to find out next time you see her is if she works there full time. I had an SA who was very inconsistent in aswering emails and towards the end answered none. I later found out she only worked there part time!
 
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